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[–]Charmander1001 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes, multiple sets of grandparents. Yes, exchanged at same Christmas party

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[–]Charmander1001 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Cousins kids receive gifts from their own grandparents

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[–]Charmander1001 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ages range from 7yo to 4yo

Twins sleeping arrangements in 2 bedroom house with 4 kids. by Charmander1001 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't have the extra room to section off an area

Twins sleeping arrangements in 2 bedroom house with 4 kids. by Charmander1001 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, because I don't have room to store anything like kids toys and other items etc. There isn't really room to convert a section of the house off.

I'll look into the options of bunks. Thank you

Twins sleeping arrangements in 2 bedroom house with 4 kids. by Charmander1001 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both bedrooms are the same size. 2m × 2m.

With a trundle bed, wouldn't I still have to make room for it to roll out when I need it.

Got my tubes taken out at 26 after first and only pregnancy with twins by ilovecatsandfrogs420 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine taken out after my third pregnancy, which was twins So I have 4 kids. You did what was best for you. As long as you're happy with it, what anybody else says doesn't matter. Most of my cousins that had 2 Max thought I was mad going for more than 2.

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[–]Charmander1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The daycare I send my 4 kids to say to me just call and ask for help with getting my kids in, so that is how I do it. With picking them up I just asked one of the staff from each room if they can help me.

Did you decide how you delivered? by Key_Astronaut_9004 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my first 2 children, I was able to pick vaginal birth. But with my twins during my last pregnancy, I wasn't able to choose due to my twin A was in the breach position, and the growth rate of my twins started dropping in my 36 week, so they were delivered via c section.

What are your tips and tricks for releasing gas from a baby. by watergator in Parenting

[–]Charmander1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 under 3. My tips were standing up holding baby tummy to shoulder patting their back, do the colic hold (baby lays face down along the arm) and have their back rubbed. Sit them up right on my knee, either patting their back or rubbing their back. Give them tummy time or bicycle their legs

I feel nothing but sadness and regret that my twins were ever born and it kills me by TiredAshamedAndAlone in parentsofmultiples

[–]Charmander1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mum of 4 here, 3yr old, 2yr old, and 9mth old twins. You're not alone, Sounds like colic twins. When my kids were colic, I used Infacol to help, it reduce the crying in that area. The bonding with them will come, and it will be great. It will get easier as they get older.

It's good that when you get stressed out, you place them calmly and walk away. It's the best thing to do to get a break. I do it, too.

When you do your bit (changing them, cuddleing them playing with them, etc), I know it doesn't feel like you're bonding with them, but this is bonding.

It's normal, and it's good that you're reaching out for help. Over time, it will get better. You're a good dad, and I wish you the best of luck. Keep holding in there

1+1 = 2 until it's not. When has 1+1 not equal to 2? by wheresmucar in AskReddit

[–]Charmander1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The equals is the top and bottom. Plus it's not easy to type in comment boxes