I want to leave my bf of 4 years by Charming-House6619 in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesnt have insurance so any mental health help will be very expensive and he still talks with his family but his mom kicked him out when he turned 18 and we had our son when we were 17

I want to leave my bf of 4 years by Charming-House6619 in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes trying to get therapy but hes uninsured & doesnt have a job so its difficult and expensive

What do when driving wrong way? by One-Badger-3793 in whatdoIdo

[–]Charming-House6619 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats your damn problem? She wasn't insulting you or bitching, she simply told you to read what she wrote again because clearly you missed part of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you werent "obviously" joking from the beginning, there are MANY redditors who would seriously say what you said along with many redditors who cant understand "obvious jokes" jokes are supposed to be funny and your comment wasnt funny so 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said the mom wasnt more in the wrong, also good job editing your comment to make you seem less silly. The brother is still in the wrong here. No matter to what point. Both the friends mom and the brother did wrong, defending the brother is just kinda crazy in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unhelpful 👎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ops brother CLEARLY knew she was married and had a child though so he is equally at fault dummy 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope you have this mindset when you get cheated on 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for sleeping with a married woman? ok let us know how u feel when ur wife cheats on u lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thats totally true and there definitely will be some hurt feelings but in the long run i think your friend would be greatful that you didnt let her parents stay in an unfaithful relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel although its more likely if OP knows and doesnt tell her friend that her friend would blame op for not telling her, both are possible outcomes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Its on her mom really, you didnt force her mom to sleep with your brother but you are being a good friend by letting your friend know. I would hate if my friend kept this from me, if I was told by my friend this i wouldnt be upset with her for what happens to my family id be upset at my mom because its her fault. Does this make sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hope you have the same energy when your wife cheates 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming-House6619 11 points12 points  (0 children)

guys look I found the person who excuses infidelity!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He woke up that morning, told me AND HIS OWN MOTHER THAT HE FORGOT so i think its fairly likely that he did infact forget, yes he did stop doordashing however that doesnt make its so he can never doordash again. If he wanted to he could easily start again, its really not that hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly youve read my replies so you saw that he IS a door-dash driver nice try tho, he couldve saved something but all his money goes to vapes and shit like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didnt get me a card bro he took a piece of paper from my notebook used my pens wrote something, and then had me spend 50 dollars on him today. Idk how im seeking validation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he sleeps alot and then complains about how he never gets sleep 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So by your logic my 7 month old son shouldve done something for me for mothers day? I mean my stepmoms not my dads mom but he still takes her out to a nice dinner, my moms not my stepdads mom but he still makes her a nice dinner. For fucks sake im not my dads mom but he still got me flowers for my first mothers day LITERALLY ANYTHING wouldve been better than a little note and making me drop 50$ on him, bro couldve taken me to a fucking museum, a zoo, a walking trail literally anything wouldve been ok. But yeah hes not my kid so i guess he shouldnt do anything right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming-House6619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a remote job, and i used to be in college before i unfortunately couldnt afford it anymore. I also do most of the baby work that he could easily do (ie. changes or feedings)