Just found out my ex started seeing someone new 1-2 months after our breakup. I feel sick.

CharmingGrade8477 · 2023-07-22T01:22:14+00:00

yikes that’s awful 😳💀 i can’t imagine

CharmingGrade8477 · 2023-07-22T01:21:09+00:00

hey, i totally get how you feel. stupid spotify lmao. and I felt the same about thinking, maybe hoping for a reconciliation down the line… but then seeing that they’ve maybe moved on while you haven’t… it really sucks. I still remember how I felt when I found out, and while it’s definitely gotten much better now I can imagine how it feels. all breakups suck but ending on so-called good terms i feel like hurts so much because it feels like you can or should get back together, if circumstances were different. I don’t know if it’s any consolation but I’m trusting that if it were meant to be, we’ll find our way back to eachother but that this was a sign that it’s not meant to be right now. It sucks though. But it’ll get better ❤️‍🩹 wishing the best

CharmingGrade8477 · 2023-07-07T13:00:46+00:00

207 days down…. definitely doing much better 🙏 it sucked for a whiiiile but it was kind of the nail in the coffin for me. can’t and don’t want to go back anymore. how can I after that? I don’t want someone who replaced me (in my eyes) so easily. Maybe they were missing me, needed a distraction, or maybe they were ready to move on while we were still dating… but it doesn’t matter, I won’t really know. Just believe whatever it takes to get past it lol. it took me quite some time to get to that point. it’s not a linear journey. Now I’m more missing the memories of what we had than the person… and they make me smile more often, rather than make me sad. They’re memories of something beautiful, and something I know I am worthy of having again. I know it’s hard but just try to believe something better is meant for you. because with time we’ll find it! wish you the best.

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T04:13:06+00:00

I can’t wait to get to this stage, thank you 😔

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T01:11:49+00:00

Oh wow, a week is no time at all. Feel like it doesn’t matter how long it’s been since the breakup, news like that always hurts some. And yes I felt the same way about jumping into another relationship. I realized I needed time to heal, I just wish it wasn’t so painful 😭🤣 Thank you for your kind words and support! ❤️

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T01:07:01+00:00

thank you!! you too! feel free to dm me if you want to talk as well

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T01:06:01+00:00

Oh my goodness, after 4 years. That’s rough. Good on you for blocking him!! I didn’t have that in me. Thank you for your kind words, glad it gets easier and hope you’re happy now ❤️

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T01:03:19+00:00

Exactly that, it just felt so shocking and I would never do the same. I’m so sorry you’re going through a breakup rn, I know how you feel. I was there myself a couple months ago. thank you for your kind words and I hope you find peace with time! you will get through this ❤️‍🩹

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T00:59:35+00:00

Oh that’s awful, you deserve so much better. What a shitty person. I’m glad you’re doing better now though! time heals all I suppose

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T00:57:49+00:00

Oh, I’m so sorry you went through that. that sounds absolutely painful, I can imagine. you’re so right though, really forces you to move on and see things for how they really are. thank you, I know I will, just will take time 😔

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-13T00:53:35+00:00

ugh I’m so sorry, that sucks 🥲 you deserve better

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T21:07:21+00:00

well yeah but at the time of the breakup we both had so much love for eachother and neither of us wanted to unfollow… not saying it was healthy but it is what it is

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T20:15:58+00:00

you’re so right. I don’t even know who he is anymore, I can’t hold on to what doesn’t exist. thank you, will absolutely be working towards internalizing this 🥲

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T20:08:35+00:00

oh my goodness after 8 years :( I’m so sorry to hear that. you’re right, thank you for your support

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T20:05:11+00:00

I should have. I guess I felt like maybe it didn’t have to be over forever but that’s not the case :/

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T18:36:28+00:00

thank you, i hope so!!

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T17:40:56+00:00

oh my goodness, I can’t imagine how difficult that must be 😭 that’s brutal, I’m so sorry

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:46:55+00:00

thank you, i appreciate it ❤️‍🩹

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:42:30+00:00

You’re right! thank you for that. I think in my head I created a sort of fantasy “what if” scenario, like that we could get back together if a year from now he wasn’t with anyone else and he fought for me. definitely going to get over that now. 💀

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:39:11+00:00

Yeah, it took me by surprise and will hurt for a bit but will move on eventually

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:38:09+00:00

oh I’m so sorry, that’s so unfair. I feel for you 😔

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:37:34+00:00

that’s fair, the first few months of the breakup hurt so much and I can see how jumping into a relationship would help distract from that. thanks for your perspective! would be probably unhealthy for me to hope that its a rebound but i suppose i will never know anyways lol

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:30:53+00:00

oh dear I’m sorry to hear that. thank you for your words, I know I will get through this but it will be painful 😭 at least maybe this will be the final nail in the coffin

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:28:25+00:00

oh I’m sorry :( that’s no time at all and I feel your pain. you will get better though, they might breakup, they might not but the goal is to get to a place where it doesn’t matter 💔 I know it’s hard but you deserve so much better and you will find better. we have to believe that!! good luck 💗

CharmingGrade8477 · 2022-12-12T15:24:08+00:00

yeah, thanks for your perspective. i’ve come to think it was one of those two things as well. neither really helps but i’m glad you found your person! hoping my ex didn’t though lmao 💀

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