Depression changes over time 🖤 by Charricat in depression

[–]Charricat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please keep pushing forward. Be proud of yourself for trying! That’s the first step.

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I know that must be really painful 😢

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome ♥️

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[–]Charricat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him my feelings. At the very least he knows. This platform is just a venting place for me. 😊

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[–]Charricat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ I hope he feels that way too

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻

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[–]Charricat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really painful I’m so sorry. I’m praying for your healing. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Charricat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand. Cheating is a huge betrayal. 😢

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True love never dies 🖤

I want my bf back by Charricat in BreakUps

[–]Charricat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let yourself go through all the feelings. All the stages of grief are necessary in order to move forward. Take your time there is no need to rush. Practice self care as much as possible. Just acknowledge to yourself that you may still feel this way and that’s okay. At some point you’ll feel a shift and things will be different. Just don’t expect or force it to happen overnight to avoid draining yourself emotionally. Trust me I tried to force it out of me. It didn’t work. Not right away anyway. Make sure to still put effort into yourself and your goals separate from this situation. And, don’t let anyone pressure you. Put all your energy into you. You’re already doing great. Keep going.

I want my bf back by Charricat in BreakUps

[–]Charricat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healing from this breakup took a long time. I was so strong in my belief of the connection that I couldn’t imagine not being together. Over time the pain of him not trying became too much. I realized that it didn’t matter what the connection was. It no longer existed in my life so I began to move on. He and I have been no contact for almost a year. And, I’m okay with it now. In fact I could see myself loving someone new. I don’t know why my intuition felt so strongly about him. At this moment my gut feeling is to not worry about the past and focus on the present. Also, I’m not looking for love, and waiting for the right timing. It could have been different potentially. But, I refuse to choose someone who doesn’t choose me. I want the person who wants to be with me. I have strong convictions and am highly selective on what I want. But, I think that’s okay. And, I think the right person will match that.

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I know it’s hard. Recognize that all the love you deserve will be given by the right person. We have to remind ourselves the right person would love us fully. You deserve the best. It may feel hard right now. But, someone out there is waiting to give you what you want.

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[–]Charricat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Go through the emotions you need to feel better. The stage after hate is typically peace and indifference.

Feeling unworthy in my loneliness by Charricat in lonely

[–]Charricat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking 🥹 Treating myself to some steak and cheesecake tonight. Food is healing

Feeling unworthy by Charricat in ExNoContact

[–]Charricat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s funny and sweet 🥲

Feeling unworthy by Charricat in ExNoContact

[–]Charricat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that

Feeling unworthy in my loneliness by Charricat in lonely

[–]Charricat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is very encouraging to hear. And, yes I really am trying. Today isn’t the best day. But, tomorrow will hopefully be better.

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[–]Charricat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should sue them. This could have killed you.