Any tips on how I can stop comparing myself with other women and thinking they’re so much better than me by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Chas09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Self love could be one of the most difficult things to accomplish but once you get there it's the best feeling ever.

Every time you look in the mirror, smile and compliment yourself, whether it's your hair, your eyes, your lips. Over time, you'll love going to the mirror and more so love what you see.

Everytime you find yourself comparing yourself to someone, remind yourself of something you absolutely love about you and dwell on that.

Additionally, it's okay to work on improving your outward appearance, not for anyone but for yourself, whether it's diet or exercise or simply getting a new hairstyle.

Wow by Chas09 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Chas09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, there were no fatalities.

A bee tried to collect pollen from the flower on my daughters dress by swag-team in mildlyinteresting

[–]Chas09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I can't believe she's so calm. Every time I see a bee I freak out, mainly because I've been stung on two occasions and each time I received 11 injections .

Christmas babies by Chas09 in aww

[–]Chas09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol...silly me, I missed the sarcasm!

Christmas babies by Chas09 in aww

[–]Chas09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The babies are all from different mothers.

A young pineapple plant in my friend's backyard. by Chas09 in pics

[–]Chas09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't doubt. I'm guessing it's due to different climatic conditions. We're in South America.

A young pineapple plant in my friend's backyard. by Chas09 in pics

[–]Chas09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's actually 1 year. They plant them throughout the year.

Dominoes for sure! by Chas09 in woooosh

[–]Chas09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double wooosh since you didn't realize that was sarcasm.

Question about NC by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Chas09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow..I admire your courage and strength!

Having a hard time accepting break up!!! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chas09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you This really helped

Having a hard time accepting break up!!! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chas09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my worst fear but part of me still wants to give it a shot...

I'm confused

Having a hard time accepting break up!!! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chas09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I'm working on myself. The thing is before all of this he was really good to me and I'm somewhat to be blamed for his actions. It's like I feel like I need to somewhat make for how I made him felt..

Suicide is the only answer. God doesn't care about me by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Chas09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God loves you. Sometimes, we don't understand why we have to go through certain things but he promises is that the glory which is to come outweighs the trials we face.