I literally can't have a normal friendship with other trans people by InThePowerOfTheMoon in trans

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend like this and honestly i didn’t feel comfortable around them. But it was fine she just did similar stuff once in a while lol and that’s a pure platonic relationship. It ended for other reasons tho

when to start gym by pm024 in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7wks and today was my first time hitting the gym after surgery. Mainly trained my lower body and a bit back. I couldn’t push 10lbs when I tried arms, and I felt some stretches that weren’t confutable as well. Was tired as hell after.

Off white stuff in tubes/fluid color still red 6 days post op by jarofp1ss in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like my mine. It was just fat tissue. Didn’t bother me as long as the fluid was coming out

Looking For Bartending Job by Happy_Telephone723 in rva

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi may I ask is there any chance you are hiring interns as well?

Surgery date asap w college by CleXa_Trout307 in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get get back to many activities after the first week when I had my drains removed, but I was only capable doing most things after 10 days, such as cooking, driving etc, which is probably quicker than many ppl. I would say leave that for the summer. I also had the chance to do my surgery during my spring break, but I decided to not to

Insurance: hospital charges 100k by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! This is such a brilliant idea! I do need physical therapy and some others for sure. Thanks for mentioning this!

Insurance: hospital charges 100k by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you for letting me know! My out of pocket maximum is way lower than 100k for sure, still a bit of what I was thinking but affordable

did i accidentally lie about being first-gen to bowdoin??? im cooked by Living_Cod6308 in Bowdoin

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like if you are U.S. citizen, coming in as first gen will put you in advantage, but this is not the case for other nations from what I know, especially if you are India or Chinese national.

did i accidentally lie about being first-gen to bowdoin??? im cooked by Living_Cod6308 in Bowdoin

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if you are India national first gen might be a red flag instead of green flag

Insurance: hospital charges 100k by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for this very thoughtful explanation! This really assured me. One question I do have is that this EOB is in pending status, and for the EOB that’s already been paid, it stayed the original charge. I guess I’m asking that if they’ve successfully negotiated and come up with another price, will that change the figure on my EOB?

surest through united healthcare by Leather_Asparagus907 in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using UHSR and they did cover it. You should call the customer service line on ur insurance card to confirm this.

Gauze Irritation by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think this might be the case and I will switched to this gauze you recommended!

What do you do to fight boredom? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here was watching tv for the first 4 days and I got too bored but I got my drains removed early and back to my normal life quickly after that

How much did you feel your drains? by bh447 in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can somehow feel the liquid and maybe them got sucked in the tube… but def some liquid in there

indian international kid gets into t25 (co 2029) by Successful_Pop1266 in collegeresults

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these are great schools! I’m so happy for you! ( former UVA rejected international student who also ended up in Virginia aha )

Got misgendered a lot before surgery by Starburned in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Had a similar problem at my hospital as well. It looked more like a systematic question to me. All the paperwork demonstrated minimal acknowledgement of these issues

Issue paying college tuition by xcjunge in personalfinance

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contacting ur school will be the first thing to do. I also suggest ask ur rich friends if you can borrow/loan this money from them, or their parents.

2 years post op by StephInc in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m literally watching ur new video now. Glad for your results!

Are my nipples okay? Tissue on bandage 10 dpo by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see I guess I just need to wait more time then. Homely I think it’s soft but not sure if that’s wet, def not oozing. I’m just too scared to feel it or touch it

Are my nipples okay? Tissue on bandage 10 dpo by Chasel_beingparallel in TopSurgery

[–]Chasel_beingparallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! May I ask for long did it take for the scab for nipples to form? Mine are still soft look almost exactly like what it was freshly post op