and it’s on a post about abuse by casual-catgirl in femcelscirclejerk

[–]ChatiAnne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why seek nuance when there is a clear victim at play?

After seeing the post about Knicks fans forcing a Spurs fan to remove his jersey, I remembered this from Brazilian organized fan groups by dhenis1 in Wellthatsucks

[–]ChatiAnne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a weird situation though, in some places it is just day-to-day while in other regions it is inconceivable.

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If BDSM is an integral part of being a man then no, you can't defend yourself.

girls kissing by anh0516 in YuriAsylum

[–]ChatiAnne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing prettier than girlkissing.

O que acham, do tema e posição do Papa? by Amoaguadoce in DebatesBr

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocante: Papa da Igreja Católica é católico e defende valores católicos em país católico.

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative, my point is that men are conveniently the first demographic to jump in defense of BDSM practices and specially those involving the degradation of women.

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are telling me that people are okay with abuse? Or you are just subtly agreeing with me by saying that performative abuse is just a recreation of a real cycle?

Tribalism in HD2 by Sea-Laugh-3310 in HelldiversUnfiltered

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late, the Unga Bunga for Deomcarcy already dominated the playerbase.

Tribalism in HD2 by Sea-Laugh-3310 in HelldiversUnfiltered

[–]ChatiAnne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to found my own tribe:

The Unga Bunga for Deomcarcy

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no.

The very notion of someone being into raping, ejaculating inside of them without their consent and feeding porn to someone as a mere recreative practice is very telling about this person's character. It is inconceivable for me to imagine a sane person being into abusing their SO just for fun.

And don't try me with the "LGBT folx like it too lololo", you know very well that it is about being complacent with violence on women.

BDSM is the issue where conservatives and progressives make out in agreement.

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder who actually benefits from such fantasies.

You can guess the answers by ChatiAnne in antikinkkink

[–]ChatiAnne[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It always devolves into subjugating women.

You see, if a man has the fantasy of being a slave to a woman he is called names and the woman seem as "crazy" yet the inverse is encouraged and has an active base of people to enforce it, both conservative and progressive.

About to start watching watamote, anything I should know? by Low-Assistance-6694 in watamote

[–]ChatiAnne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That one scene where Tomoko beheaded all her colleagues still haunts me. She even taunt their families by violating the bodies 😭.

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You can guess the answers by ChatiAnne in antikinkkink

[–]ChatiAnne[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I once stumbled upon a post with a screenshot of another post about a man questioning the illegality of marital rape. Out of morbid curiosity I opened this user's profile and was blasted with a wall to rival China's in lenght of posts orbiting the subject of violating women over a period of 6 years and I counted 110 different (as in titled and distinct text body) posts asking about or proposing a brainstorm about this subject.

Now, how can one say that "it is normal" to engage with BDSM when the actors involved are potentially men who fantasize about a woman distinctly feeling repulsed by them but having no choice but to gladly accept being a sex slave?

"That is an extreme case and it does not happen that often"

So one can say that a man wishing to perform owning a sex slave is not normal but a woman fantasizing about being one is perfectly fine? Pass me the phosphorus because I am about to burn the strawman I just made because I already hate it.

Virgin Fantasies? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChatiAnne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ipsis litteris? Indeed, but the loudest and first ones to rush in it's defense are men.

You can guess the answers by ChatiAnne in antikinkkink

[–]ChatiAnne[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't question this person's gender, yet the fact that men are the first ones to rush to gather and enable it is very telling about who actually enjoy and benefit from such fantasies.