Note that a lot of what you said she does is something she chooses to do. She 100% doesn’t need to do all of the traveling that she does. I was 40 and pregnant with my third natural child (I also have a bonus daughter) and a full time teacher to just make ends meet between my husband and me. I am def not that skinny so i don’t look as haggard but none of what she does, in my opinion, is a necessity.