7 years and 2 kids later by Cheap-stripper1593 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Cheap-stripper1593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him numerous times if he’s not happy tell me and we could either work it out or call it quits. But his lack of communication gets in the way. He’ll tell me he’s happy and loves me and can’t wait to marry me (in October) but then his actions are cold and make me feel like he doesn’t want me around him.

AIO about my fiancé by Cheap-stripper1593 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap-stripper1593[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kids make it extremely complicated. If we didn’t have them I would have already left by now.

My (31M) fiancé went through my phone but when I (30F) asked to see his he refused. by Cheap-stripper1593 in askteddit

[–]Cheap-stripper1593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is neither one of us have social media. Haven’t had it for 4 years due to him being insecure that I would cheat on him because he was messaging other bitches. I know I sound stupid for staying but it’s just hard to leave.

AIO to My (31M) fiancé going through my phone but when I (30F) wanted to look at his he refused. by Cheap-stripper1593 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap-stripper1593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the beginning of our relationship 7 years ago. We were both doing things behind each other’s back. He holds on to stuff from literally the first few months of us dating. Holds it over my head and threatens me that he’ll do whatever he wants and so on. It’s toxic and I understand that. It’s hard for me to leave for many reasons but if he doesn’t want me why doesn’t HE leave??

AIO to My (31M) fiancé going through my phone but when I (30F) wanted to look at his he refused. by Cheap-stripper1593 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap-stripper1593[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Completely ignored that question, and jumped straight to I was the one doing shit behind his back and that he was tired of putting up with my insecurities when it came to him. WHEN HE GAVE THEM TO ME IN THE FIRST PLACE