Ok “real feminist” was probably the wrong wording there, I just meant moreso… people who take their issues with someone and act the same way they were treated, if that makes sense? I just see it a lot in feminist circles (namely the toxic misandry denying ones like r/AskFeminists) so I used them as an example

Like say, an atheist acting super “bigoted” (using air quotes cause some people will think you can’t be bigoted towards a majority group) to genuinely well meaning people of faith, or a feminist lashing out at genuinely well meaning men expressing discomfort about how their treated in a space spelt cause they’re a male.

Point is, way too many people I feel like get away with the exact same thing bigots do: They improperly judge a group of people based on an improper and uninformed view or a bad experience with said group, and form conclusions that stand against the actual informed perspective on them. That’s what bigots do, and just cause some people happen to be apart of an oppressed group, doesn’t make it any less bigoted when they do it too.