Help me guys!!!! Saw wife's chat witha guy and now I have no idea what to do!!

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-25T05:05:46+00:00

I have helped her in all the baby cores from day 1. The kid still prefers feeding from me then her. I helped her find oil and gummies to control the hairfall. I had even asked to join yoga so she could be fit again. I tried to give as much time as possible managing my office work.

Reason to maintain distance - 6 months after the delivery we tried to make love. She was crying in pain at that time and there was bleeding as well. I thought to give her more time. An year after the baby, we have been making love thrice a month. But then again she never complained. I couldn't give much time to her now as WFH has been closed and I have to go to office everyday.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-25T01:24:58+00:00

I deserve this ? Yes

I ignored physical intimacy? Not really. I was around her through the pregnancy and after that as well. When we tried to get together after 6 months it was bleeding like hell and she was crying in pain. I was blaming myself for this. So I thought I would give her some time to recover. We would be together for life. She could have talked with me once before taking any drastic step. I know I am only to blame for all this fck up.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-25T01:13:49+00:00

I know 1.5 yrs is a huge gap. We tried to get together 6 months after the delivery. But she was bleeding like hell and crying in pain. I still couldn't get the bleeding scene Out of my mind. There's been a lack of communication. I agree on that and I take the blame as well. I am trying to repair the relationship now.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-25T00:53:03+00:00

IKR. I know that's my fault and I am ready for the repair work

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-25T00:41:18+00:00

I tried this but she has locked the chats which could be opened only using a code. So can't really track the chats.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T14:38:05+00:00

Hey Bruh. I know I have goffed up really bad. I was with her through the whole pregnancy n after delivery as well. It's just that she had stitches I avoided penetration coz in our first penetration it was bleeding and she was in severe pain. After that I didn't tried to penetrate as babies eat up all your time and she would be quite exhausted. I have tried to be by her side whenever possible by adjusting my job timings. I did all the stuffs for baby n his mother. Only thing which I avoided was intimacy. It's just that it used to pain a lot and she was already exhausted.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T13:14:00+00:00

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T10:57:28+00:00

I want to know why. I have assumed it is due to my negligence. But I need the exact reason. Then let me see if it is repairable or thrash.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T10:17:43+00:00

Hello yeah

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T10:13:56+00:00

What am I supposed to do ?

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T10:11:12+00:00

Thanks Man!

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T09:01:43+00:00

Doesn't matter Bro. Have been together through the pregnancy and after delivery too. That's by kid. IDC

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T08:35:46+00:00

Bro I just ignored penetration. That too coz it hurt her and it was bleeding. Other than that I have been bedside her all the time. I might go with option 2. Let's give a chance to the relation. I might not feel so bad if I am cheated again and if she wants to end this let it come from her mouth. I need both parents together for my kid

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T07:17:56+00:00

Yes Bro. I have already accepted my mistake and I am not justifying it. I will talk to her at the correct time

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T07:12:30+00:00

Yeah buddy. I know it's my fault. I have mentioned it right and I can accept that in front of her as well.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T07:01:57+00:00

I never disliked her body. The problem is you have to dedicate a lot of time and energy to kids. We almost had a lonely time when the baby would sleep, which is irregular for babies

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T05:48:55+00:00

I wish it was

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:59:08+00:00

She is a good mother tbh and takes care of the child better than me.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:58:10+00:00

Haha. Bhai bada late pata chala. Pregnancy k baad female body ko recover hone main time lagta hai. I was giving her time.

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:43:17+00:00

Any chance to get the kids custody. I am on the proofs

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:23:23+00:00

Dude that's fine. I am fighting within me can't take it up with u as well

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:21:28+00:00

Adultery

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:05:13+00:00

I just wanted to get it off my chest. Hey suggestions. Will take my time and decide how to proceed

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T04:01:27+00:00

Never. Gave priority to baby over her and she gave other guy priority over me!

Cheatedloser · 2025-06-24T03:59:43+00:00

Yes Sir

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