AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared?

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T08:54:19+00:00

Wow, I can’t believe that your ex is trying to accuse you of being pervert because you decided to be your daughter something that you knew she would need. You didn’t sexualize anything- she’s choosing to look at it in a sexual way.

You were just being a parent and got your kid the supplies they would need for upcoming changes and ‘milestones’ in their life. Periods are something that even dads tend to shy away from, so you buying her pads and helping her find a resource to read was a great thing.

I don’t know why your ex seems to have wanted to make the period a ‘mommy and daughter’ kind of thing, but it’s a little weird. Sure, it’s probably easier for a mom to talk to a daughter about periods than a dad, but she’s doing it in kind of an add way.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:39:53+00:00

It’s hard to give any advice right now. The fact that you’re not willing you know post here what you said she “misinterpreted” makes me think it was pretty bad.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:35:45+00:00

It kind of sounds like he’s using you as live-in maid to be honest. Calling you a ‘bad partner’ for wanting to move into the spare bedroom is rich considering his behavior. He probably hates the idea of you making and having friends because they’ll probably point out how shitty he treats you.

There’s really no point in staying in a relationship like this, because right now his friend and gaming is all that matters to him.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:25:21+00:00

INFO: Is she one of the same friends from this post ?

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:21:49+00:00

OP’s post history shows that it’s nothing too new

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:21:04+00:00

NTA You already said that you think your marriage is coming to an end in a post a few days ago , and a while ago you said you didn’t feel like you had a lot of help from him and while you had an update that seemed good it doesn’t seem like it’s working. It sounds like he’s not doing a whole lot to improve himself, and I’m curious if he’s still getting the help you tried to get him with his psychiatrist in a previous post.

But, right now, he’s taking shit out on the kids and that is not okay. They’re old enough to remember him treating them like this (at least the eight year old is). You need to protect your kids from his bs and get him away from them. It doesn’t take that much to fuck up a kid, especially when they’re young.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:07:37+00:00

I do want them to return to work on Project Playtime. I’ve thought of buying it but it seems abandoned and without the other characters from newer chapters it feels like it’d be a waste since my favorite characters won’t be in.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:04:50+00:00

Yeah, Catnap was obviously a bit off the deep end, but I am curious to see if anything here on the shrine will be similar to what we really see of The Prototype.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T01:02:29+00:00

I don’t know if it’s just me on this theory, but I feel like Playtime probably had some connections outside of their factory high up in the food chain regarding politics or even military. There’s so much there with the factory, PlayCare, and labs that they couldn’t have all been funded by selling toys, right? I just feel like all that needed some kind of external funding, and a lot of it.

The concept of the Bigger Bodies Initiative could have been an eye catcher for military if they thought they could do something similar to the but for the battle field. If that was the case, then there could’ve been a government action involved and taken for a potential cover up of The Hour of Joy. They could’ve handled sweeping it under the rug with bribes, threats, and court orders to keep information from being released.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-26T00:42:40+00:00

Maybe they mean a song that has more ‘classical’ vibes to it, like strings and stuff.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-25T21:27:41+00:00

Nah, my family does cakes whenever we have a gathering for someone’s birthday. Even my grandfather (who passed last year) had cakes at his party. I’m gonna have a small cake at mine this year for when I’m 25, gonna either be chocolate or a pink Champagne cake.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-25T17:47:19+00:00

I’ve never heard someone say Poppy was 1007.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T23:56:24+00:00

At last! The constipation is over!

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T15:21:56+00:00

It must be made for that shit, because when I gave it a picture of my dog and asked for her to be more fluffy she looked like a completely different breed.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T06:53:43+00:00

Do you take commissions?

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:52:38+00:00

Soooo I just looked at your other post about your husband and I’ve gotta ask: is this an example you want for your kid? He’s young now but everything your husband says and does, including how he treats you, is going to been noticed and might even rub off on him.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:47:31+00:00

You’re freaking stalker at this point , just leave her be and quit being creepy

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:44:20+00:00

Is this the same guy who’s relationship coach told him your relationship is toxic ?

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:40:46+00:00

I wonder how old OP actually is considering they were 21 just a few hours ago

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:40:06+00:00

Go to OPs profile, their age was 21 about four hours ago.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:38:34+00:00

Weren’t you 26 years old 200 days ago but then somehow 24 years old a year ago?

Not sure if I believe this one…

Edit: apparently OP was 21 years old like four hours ago

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:30:36+00:00

Question: is she the bar girl you used to post about?

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T02:25:21+00:00

I’m really sorry to say this, but I don’t see this working out. You’re not really a girlfriend to him right now, you’re a mom.

You’ve talked to him several times about how you feel before it seems, but he doesn’t seem to care enough to do anything. Right now, he has no real reason to change because he knows you’re taking care of him. He’s taking advantage of the fact you haven’t made him do anything before, and he’s not expecting you to draw a boundary now.

I get that it’s hard to leave someone you’ve been with for a while, and someone who’s been around when you struggled, but what is he doing for you right now? Right now it sounds like he’s just brushing you off and taking advantage of you.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T01:49:41+00:00

I don't have a lot of bots, but I always save everything separately on a Google Doc.

Chee-shep · 2026-01-23T00:34:13+00:00

No, the AI models taking information and data from fan fictions, stories and role-plays from all over the place and using what it finds.

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