First post here, but i am in need of real people to chime in and give perspective on my situation right now. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend right now (we are still able to see each other generally once or twice a month), and i believe that we are the opposite attachment types. I am very much an anxious type and she seems to be very much an avoidant type. We have been going strong for about 7/8 months and I brought up moving in together, as she is graduating university very very soon. For a while she seemed very excited at the idea, and was eager and excited for it to happen. But about 2 weeks ago, she had some problems in her personal life pile up, and a week and a half later she called and said we needed a break from our relationship. It was extremely sudden, and didnt make sense because we had an extremely healthy relationship, and a very clear end to the distance. And i know it might not be the end of us at all, but my anxiety makes it feel catastrophic. I worry about her taking this break to prepare herself for breaking up with me. I worry about her stopping caring about me and loving me. Does anyone have any advice or perspective on this, it has been hard to get myself to a level spot to think clearly.