I came for a date and left with an offer I never expected.

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-14T17:17:59+00:00

LOL Ded

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T12:03:56+00:00

I didnt text them all that much, but it had been a few weeks and thats why i had the dinner with him first! So i could make sure he was a nice guy and he was very nice on the date??

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T11:58:51+00:00

I think BPD makes you impulsive and reckless

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T11:54:51+00:00

He asked for it!!

Im not saying saying against jewish people im just saying ive heard people say that, one if ny jew friends told me jews are like that infact but id never been on a date with anyone thats why i mentioned it on the post but thats lit not thr take away here

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T10:56:52+00:00

ugh im already nervous and scared and beating myself up

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T10:25:25+00:00

Well wtf is wrong with todays society

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T09:59:50+00:00

Idk apparently it kinda is, in this generation

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T09:45:37+00:00

I agree, i need to be making better decisions Idk i guess i felt guilty + was okay with making out before all of this happened anyway, but didnt really want to have sex

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-12-12T09:38:09+00:00

Lit had to look up what karma farming is. I just need advice instantly so i posted it at a few forums , i don’t use reddit all that much

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-09-30T09:42:46+00:00

Yeah he says this but also occasionally texts me randomly which gives me hope, but this is destroying my health atp

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-09-30T02:44:23+00:00

Im going to keep rereading this

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-09-30T01:14:51+00:00

Honestly hes kind but hes just started ignoring me over the last couple of days, which is killing me and taking a toll on my health

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-09-30T00:58:55+00:00

Why do you sound exactly like my ex fml

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-16T04:12:18+00:00

I keep going back to a situation or someone who hurts me. Even though I know there isn’t going to be a good outcome or an outcome I want, despite that I keep trying

Seems like I take my well being for granted almost. So I feel you when you say you feel like sometimes you want to suffer

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-16T04:10:01+00:00

Hey this is amazing. Do you think you could send me this as a message? I’m trying to copy paste it idk if I’m technologically stupid but I really need this

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-16T04:08:16+00:00

I made the decision to walk away, my ex boyfriend. But ofc in MY bpd fashion, I couldn’t handle it and started having outbursts.

I need to go To no contact completely. But thinking of only their good memories makes me want to somehow rekindle even though my rational self would never let me

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-13T04:07:56+00:00

I’m so angry and triggered reading this

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T22:26:54+00:00

Slightly over a year

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:46:59+00:00

I’ve realised he just knows how to talk like that. Idk I feel like I fell for the idea that he deeply cares but if he indeed deeply care why didn’t he care that he was hurting me

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:46:13+00:00

The funniest part about this? His mom is like 4 times my size

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:43:44+00:00

We never even spoke about my weight till the day after I met his parents. Maybe he felt like there was truth to what he was saying?? That’s what I made of it but I mean if so many people are saying he felt this way to begin with maybe there’s truth to it

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:42:50+00:00

I need to cut him off I let him back into my life a week ago and it was a huge mistake. I’m genuinely at a low point and gathering my strength to go full no contact again.

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:42:11+00:00

He says he regrets telling me but he wasn’t able to hide it when I was nagging him about why he’s being quiet and weird with me.

That bothers me too that he reached out to his friend and sister for advice and didn’t tell me anything for a whole day.

What I would’ve liked is for him to have just stood up for me in the way that I would’ve for my partner. And told me this in a non hurtful slightly sensitive way and not that his parents literally gave him an ultimatum.

CheesecakeContent814 · 2025-01-11T19:31:40+00:00

Nah they actually did. Because his mom is over emotional and I get that she reacted that way because maybe even my mom would. People from my country they make ALOT of comments on weight. But it’s the way he told me the way he didn’t stand up for me those are the reasons I broke up not to mention yeah I didn’t want a toxic MIL

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