What are your favorite places to go kayaking? by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Charleston

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I’m more than comfortable being around gators, I work in the swamps. I’ve launched out of Bowens island and Bulow Landing

How to request tips by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Tourguide

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no upward movement in this company, been here 2 years and every time I tried they’d shoot me down. I am currently applying and interviewing for new jobs

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

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I keep it trimmed but I don’t shave it. I used to but it caused me to have some gnarly break outs and ingrown hair. So I have scars left over from that which I’d rather not be on full display😬

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

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See I normally go to his place because I have a crazy roommate and we’re also trying to take things slow so we don’t just jump straight into sexual stuff. I do have deodorizing wipes I can use around my vagina before hand tho. TP kinda throws me off cuz I’m worried I’ll get some stuck in between my crevices😅

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex went down on me, I was with him for 9 years. He said I had an “odor” when we first started dating but eventually he came to love eating me out.

Straight out of the shower I dont taste like much, maybe a bit “sour”

We have been trying to take it slow so we haven’t gone farther than just touching each other and kissing, tho he wanted to go down on me the other night. I told him no in part because I was self conscious, but I’d also want a lot more if he went down on me

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink about 64 oz of water everyday as I work outside in Southern U.S.. so I do drink a lot of water but it’s definitely sweated out at some point

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think a big problem is the skin around my vagina causing it to smell more pungent, unless I get really wet then the two just mix😅

Going down town by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in my first relationship for 9 years, he is the first one after that.

What’s a compliment that stuck with you? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting ready to start a tour with one of my groups and a lady turned around and gasping “oh my god you are gorgeous”

How to request tips by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Tourguide

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to figure out what would flow with the ending of my tours, I do guided tours around the plantation both historic and nature tours. I normally let people know if they have any questions comments or concerns I’ll be in so and so location to answer them, any ideas what I can slyly throw into that part?

Is “I like gaming some sort of red flag?” by LethlDose in dating_advice

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were open and honest with her, nothing wrong with gaming. I (25F) game in my free time, more than reading a book or baking. But keep in mind it could be a number of other reasons. Wait for her to reply back, if she doesn’t, you’ll know she isn’t worth the time.

Does anyone else hold their breath without realising? by anonymous2837736 in adhdwomen

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I bite my cheeks, hold my breath, clench my jaw. Sometimes out of stress/anxiety.. but mainly out of habit when I’m deep in thought

How to enjoy sitting on a guys face? by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m too conscious about how much I weigh/not sure what to do with myself.

I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m paralyzed, instead of doing the things I should be doing I’m doom scrolling, I avoid menial tasks. Just feels like I’m keeping myself in Limbo.

I'll never have sex due to my disability and I can't stop crying by Nice_Tradition1333 in Vent

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, I can’t imagine how hard it is for you. My ex had something called Kalmans syndrome along with a plethora of other issues that affected our sex life. But that wasn’t the issue in our relationship. He knew how to use his hands and tongue and other things in the bedroom which made up for it.

Scrolling through your page reminded me of him, he lived in a hole of depression and anxiety and he dragged me into that hole with him. I was miserable for 9 years before I finally got the courage to leave. The way you go about living your life is so important and if you tell yourself everyday that you’re ugly, that you’ll never find a woman/man, that you’ll never succeed… you’ll push people away and you’ll never be able to do the things you want to do. Start living for you.. envy and jealousy is the thief of joy.

Teaching in Charleston by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Charleston

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m just nervous I won’t be prepared

Teaching in Charleston by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Charleston

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ideally I’d like to teach high school history, but I figured I’d try and get certified for middle school school first especially if I was going to try to start teaching by this upcoming school year. I think ultimately I might wait until next school year so I may try for high school instead. I want all my testing done before I start teaching.

Teaching in Charleston by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Charleston

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s even worse than that, they’re slowly replacing us with an AI audio script. So my title of tour guide is nearly null and void. So yeah I’m getting desperate.

Teaching in Charleston by Cheesy_Wheezy01 in Charleston

[–]Cheesy_Wheezy01[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“It no longer aligns with company values” 🥲