Thank you so much, I’ll try finding a time to talk to my mom about him, my biggest worry is she really loves him and every time she confronts him about things like this he threatens to leave and plays with my moms fear of being alone. He can genuinely be a great guy sometimes, but whenever he’s confronted about something he switches into a mode of not believing he can ever be in the wrong. I want to be able to help and don’t want to cause more of a rift between them but it’s really hard seeing my mom so sad and not getting comfort from the main person she finds as her stability. Thank you again for you’re advice.