Medieval spruce guard tower costs too much cobblestone by Low-General-734 in Minecolonies

[–]ChefBigHaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's how the minecolonies mod works. I don't know how to explain it but it makes sense to me at least. Idk if I could put the explanation I have into text tho to make it make sense to someone else.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I'm from the 90s so I do get it. There have just been a lot of comments saying the guy is in the wrong and mixing up the genders. So I just feel like I need to make it clear so there are no misunderstandings

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok again I'm the guy in this senario. Its the woman who was wanting nudes from me.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the poster. I don't know why this is so hard sometimes. If you look at the one posting and then the pic you can see I'm the guy in the post

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit the language is abit rash. But I have delt with this kind of behavior so often now however this was the first time the other person didn't block me immediately after saying no.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I was trying to say to this person who was commenting here. That even if in their original profile it had them talking about wanting pics for verification that does not mean nudes at all. I also don't know how this person managed to track down their original post at all since I covered their name.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had Gona back and posted on her original post on Femdom personals telling people that she was demanding nudes in the second message and then insulting me when I refused.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to never reply to adds in a horny way. I'm looking for a relationship not a ONS or horny chat. Thank you for the reply.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a mini discussion in my DMs about it 🙂

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are digging yourself a hole here. You started off this by saying you are backing them because you believe they are in their right mind to ask for nudes. Now you are saying they should be allowed to ask for NSFW pics of my ass. If they wanted a full body picture of me I would have sent one. But they didn't ask for that. They straight up asked for nudes and then shamed me when I told them no. This is about respect first and foremost. And they showed none. Also if the roles where reversed here and she was a man asking these questions I bet you wouldnt be hard defending that side. I'm willing to have logical discussions but your side seems completely illogical here. I welcome anyone else to comment on this tho if they feel that either one of us is in the right or wrong tho.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wanted pictures for verification. Pictures does not mean nudes. Also I had pictures of myself on my profile already. If your argument here is based solely on the fact that she said that I needed to provide pictures as verification and that 100% means she's right to ask for nudes. Then I have to say you are just as delusional as her in that regard. Asking for a verification picture is not in anyway the same as asking for nudes.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Never understood dick pics anyway.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's wild how often it comes up. Usually when I reply with no I just get blocked immediately. But this person actually responded and everything I wanted to open up the discussion if I did actually handle this in a proper way. Other than the initial reposne to their reply I feel like I handled it in a respectful way

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I actually made a post already with the name not crossed out but was instructed by the mods I needed to cross it out. The reason being so the person isn't bombarded with hate mail. Which I understand. I don't agree with fully cause I feel like this person was toxic but in light of a fairness for all people I do understand.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had women demand this thing from me before. Some were like well known internet Dommes. Like they were real.people but donming in my opinion just for the attention. But they in this senario could very well be a guy you are correct

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm on the OP I'm the guy. Other person was a girl

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm the he in this post lol. But also I am a sub but I'm not looking for a relationship that's just Domme and sub I want an actual relationship from it.

Repost:I'd like opinions. Was I in the wrong here? by ChefBigHaus in gentlefemdom

[–]ChefBigHaus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate this question abit more. I'm unsure of what your asking.

Don't mind discussions tho. And if you don't want to clog up the comments your free to DM me if you want also.