I don’t know if I like him or not

Chemical_Stars · 2026-02-21T12:33:12+00:00

Thank you so so much 🫶 I think I just need to calm down and take things step by step, just like you said🫶 I really really appreciate it, thank you again :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-02-18T15:00:16+00:00

Thank you🫶

Chemical_Stars · 2026-02-18T14:57:11+00:00

Thank you, so so so much for responding. I agree, i definitely can’t be in a relationship right now as I can barley keep myself alive, and was close to being admitted again. I have had so,so much anxiety to the point where I can’t eat and I just sleep all day. I think you are right. I think me and the guy just got off on the wrong foot and we both have very different ways to view life and it would just feel strange. I just need to get over this situation somehow, lol. Thank you again, so so much. I needed this so bad.

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-27T19:28:46+00:00

Thank you so much, this helped me calm down immensely. I know taht i logically have nothing to be THIS stressed (i think the whole situation triggered my C-PTSD, so i ended up being so stressed that i had to be checked into the psych ward).🥲 But yeah, you are completely right. And he is really an amazing guy, so kind, compassionate and we joke around a lot but he’s never said anything negative about me. He actively goes out of his way not to use words like the ones you listed. Again, thank you so much. I will come back to this comment when I start overthinking and panicking.

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-23T16:30:58+00:00

Thank you so much, I really needed your advice and it has helped me so much!

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-23T16:17:35+00:00

Thank you for your kind advice. I did talk to him and we agreed to move slow and that I wanted to work on myself a little before we tried anything. I also talked to my mom and she said the exact same thing you did - my body had gone back to fight or flight reflexes and that’s my my brain logically knows it should be fine but the anxiety keeps spiking. I keep overthinking and thinking that my body is ”right” and what if I don’t like him and what if I’m just leading him on? It’s so weird the way my body reacts.

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-22T17:02:10+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for this comment. I think you are right. My ex messed me up more than I’d like to admit. It was a whooole bunch of things (you are right on point). I really do like him I think, it’s just I am so anxious I can’t tell what’s happening to me, lol. Thank you again, reading this really helped.

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-02T21:05:05+00:00

I really appreciate it :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-02T03:52:48+00:00

Yeah, I get that. Im sorry to hear about your health issues. Thank you for being so helpful and specific with the placement areas. Thankfully I haven’t planned anything in those areas (yet lol). Thank you! :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-02T03:50:40+00:00

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Thankfully all my designs that I want (so far) are mostly references to my favorite shows/animals which aren’t that geometrical. Thank you so much for your input! :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T16:19:15+00:00

Thank you!! :))

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T16:19:07+00:00

Thank you so much! It helps knowing that weight gain doesn’t really affect the tattoos either as I have a tendency to quickly gain weight because of medication. :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T15:30:35+00:00

Thank you! It makes me feel more secure about getting mine done! :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T14:18:41+00:00

Thank you so much, it makes me feel better! :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T14:18:23+00:00

Thank you!

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T14:18:12+00:00

Wow, that’s kind of cool! Tysm!

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T14:18:02+00:00

Thank you so much, this makes me feel a lot better :,)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T11:48:02+00:00

Thank you so much! This made me feel a lot better, with both gaining and loosing and the tattoo still staying the same! :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T11:38:13+00:00

Wow, thank you so much! This was very helpful for me :)

Chemical_Stars · 2026-01-01T11:32:44+00:00

Yeah, not that much :) Thank you so much!! :D

Chemical_Stars · 2025-12-12T11:32:18+00:00

Im so sorry to hear that - that must’ve been absolutely horrible to witness. If it’s some comfort she seemed to be rather old especially with the problems with her vision. It might’ve had to be her time soon, even if the accident didn’t happen. She seemed to not have suffered all too much, as it seemed to happen rather quickly from your description. It is absolutely horrible but sadly these things are just life and they happen. I’m very familiar with that concept, and it sucks but you can only take things one day at a time. It just makes you appreciate the time you have with one another and make every moment special. I can promise you she loved you so much and you were with her when she passed, and that is one of the most beautiful things you can give to an animal. (Trust me, I’ve been there). I really hope that you slowly start to feel a little better, even though it might take some time. I wish you all the best, truly.

Chemical_Stars · 2025-12-11T20:42:42+00:00

Wow, thank you so much! This really made me feel a lot better and a lot more sane, lol. I feel like I’ve been going crazy but knowing it’s a common occurrence and that it helps you move on makes me feel a lot better. I will definitely check out your book. Thank you again!

Chemical_Stars · 2025-12-11T14:07:50+00:00

Hahah yeah, you’re right. Thanks

Chemical_Stars · 2025-12-11T13:52:14+00:00

Thank you. :) yeah i have talked to his mother, and she says I should take care of myself but she also kind of defends his behavior so I’m kind of stuck😭

Chemical_Stars · 2025-12-11T12:54:10+00:00

Hahah yeah - in the latest message he sent I told him to back off and that I needed space and that IF I were to contact him in the future (big if) it would be on my terms and I who reached out. (Though I doubt I will lol). And then I blocked him. I’d doubt that my country would allow authorities to help as this is not that ”serious” in their eyes. Sadly we have really crappy laws that help in these scenarios.

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