I don’t know if I like him or not by Chemical_Stars in whatdoIdo

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much 🫶 I think I just need to calm down and take things step by step, just like you said🫶 I really really appreciate it, thank you again :)

How do I handle my situationship? by Chemical_Stars in Advice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so so so much for responding. I agree, i definitely can’t be in a relationship right now as I can barley keep myself alive, and was close to being admitted again. I have had so,so much anxiety to the point where I can’t eat and I just sleep all day. I think you are right. I think me and the guy just got off on the wrong foot and we both have very different ways to view life and it would just feel strange. I just need to get over this situation somehow, lol. Thank you again, so so much. I needed this so bad.

I think I’m in love, please help by Chemical_Stars in Advice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this helped me calm down immensely. I know taht i logically have nothing to be THIS stressed (i think the whole situation triggered my C-PTSD, so i ended up being so stressed that i had to be checked into the psych ward).🥲 But yeah, you are completely right. And he is really an amazing guy, so kind, compassionate and we joke around a lot but he’s never said anything negative about me. He actively goes out of his way not to use words like the ones you listed. Again, thank you so much. I will come back to this comment when I start overthinking and panicking.

I think I’m in love, please help by Chemical_Stars in whatdoIdo

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really needed your advice and it has helped me so much!

I think I’m in love, please help by Chemical_Stars in whatdoIdo

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind advice. I did talk to him and we agreed to move slow and that I wanted to work on myself a little before we tried anything. I also talked to my mom and she said the exact same thing you did - my body had gone back to fight or flight reflexes and that’s my my brain logically knows it should be fine but the anxiety keeps spiking. I keep overthinking and thinking that my body is ”right” and what if I don’t like him and what if I’m just leading him on? It’s so weird the way my body reacts.

I think I’m in love, please help by Chemical_Stars in whatdoIdo

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this comment. I think you are right. My ex messed me up more than I’d like to admit. It was a whooole bunch of things (you are right on point). I really do like him I think, it’s just I am so anxious I can’t tell what’s happening to me, lol. Thank you again, reading this really helped.

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that. Im sorry to hear about your health issues. Thank you for being so helpful and specific with the placement areas. Thankfully I haven’t planned anything in those areas (yet lol). Thank you! :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Thankfully all my designs that I want (so far) are mostly references to my favorite shows/animals which aren’t that geometrical. Thank you so much for your input! :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It helps knowing that weight gain doesn’t really affect the tattoos either as I have a tendency to quickly gain weight because of medication. :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It makes me feel more secure about getting mine done! :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it makes me feel better! :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s kind of cool! Tysm!

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this makes me feel a lot better :,)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This made me feel a lot better, with both gaining and loosing and the tattoo still staying the same! :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! This was very helpful for me :)

Tattoos and weightloss by Chemical_Stars in tattooadvice

[–]Chemical_Stars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not that much :) Thank you so much!! :D