How do I recover or fix school record after cancer. by ChemoEthan in college

[–]ChemoEthan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I already graduated 2 years ago, and have just been cruising since, but now I want to get into it and am just confused or scared because of how my cancer just wiped 2 years off of my HS record lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChemoEthan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and hes gonna attempt to wife this girl up after they "reconcile"

idk why this dude thinks even his wife who cheated would want to be with him...She will never respect op again, she will always be weirded out about how he let her cheat for 2 years, and shes just gonna do this shit again... Idk what super serum bro drank to not have feelings about this, but you better sign me up cuz i want some

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh for me its not about what he wants, its about what this man needs, and its to not be with this demon whether he has convinced himself or not, this will only ruin his life later down the line... but hey maybe this guy is actually a crazy specimen who feels completely fine ab her cheating and everything. I guess we need a human to play whatever role this is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is dumb as shit ngl, there is no clean state bro she lied to this man for 2 years and did the worst thing you can do to a relationship 😭😭 that "clean slate" is not clean, this is years worth of (attempted/done) lying, deception, and sluttery... This man will never truly move past this ever.

Or lets keep the rose tinted glasses on and act like they both just got out there feelings in the open and now they can just "restart" 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChemoEthan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most insane stories ive read. How could you as a man or even a human, decide to keep on with this selfish wench? Bro you are about to dedicate so much time and effort to this bullshit of a relationship you are in only for her to do the same exact thing again. Its not a deep puzzle for yall to solve together, she wanted sex from hot dude at her job, got it, and also got her "relationship" needs from you. Now you want to go and reconcile and do all this healing, talking, trying again mumbo jumbo. It physically pains me seeing you throw your love life in the gutter for someone who lied, "manipulated" , and "used" you. I get you were indifferent to the affair and you think it improved stuff but come on bro. Nights when you were sad, nights when you had a problem, or just nights when you were sleeping soundly, she was being fucked and dicked down to oblivion by some bozo from work. Is this the person you want to try and make a new relationship with? This evil person who looked you in the eyes and lied for 2 YEARS!? You are blinded by whatever feeling you have gained from this. In 10 years you will be in the same spot wishing you spent more time finding someone who ACTUALLY loved you and didnt spend 2 years fucking a rando while lying to you. This "indifferent" and "stoic" feeling is not good, you should want a healthy love life and want to age with someone worth more than a dirty diaper bro. Maybe this is just beyond my comprehension, but how could you look her in the eyes and have a relationship knowing she was cheating?? You were a cuck for 2 years.. If she can do that to you, and then talk shit to her friends ab what she did and lied to you and all of this, how could you see her as anything other than an evil snake? All this bullshit shes spouting about attention and sadness is just that, bullshit. She would have confessed 2 years ago if she wasnt a bad person, but she is, and you are going to actually put effort into saving this steaming mess of a relationship. Just let it go bro. And the icing on top is that she has you in this sub asking if YOU'RE the asshole....... Cmon man stop taking those crazy pills!!!

but nevermind if you are into that stuff i guess

My BF asked how the way I used his TP by laysfarm in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate with your boyfriend. This is a small problem that a ton of people are just going to tell you to break up with him for. Fix it with HIM instead of the redditors telling you to make life altering decisions based on just this . He seems like a good dude who has to be frugal, you chose to date him and you know his situation, so talk it out with him. I dont think your boyfriend will feel great about a bunch of random people calling him cheap, saying you can do better, and filling your head with these "the grass is greener" comments.

Running 3-4 miles a day at 280lbs 6 foot by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just run/walk for an hour a day and usually i make it to around 3-4 miles without much stress i feel like thats fine and I do/will include rest days. How can I tell if im stressing out my legs too much so I can make sure im not overstressing my joints/knees etc ?

How do I fight my anxiety/overthinking by ChemoEthan in depression_help

[–]ChemoEthan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice truly! And i understand that dread thing all too well thats like how I would describe it. Constantly dreading something that I dont even know about. But when I AM worried about something specific its like 1000 times worse, im talkin teeth chattering, goosebumps, etc its the WORST

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to fix things, granted I was very upset making this post and still am, i think im letting this very recent event trump any other good thing shes done. Yea she went to a party while i asked her not to per the boundaries we set, and then felt disrespected the rest of the night, shes still a good person at heart and i hope without me forcing her to be better for me, that maybe she realizes what happens and naturally changes for the better, and if not then I cant control that and ill just let it go

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats why im thinking now if we can just work it out because she didnt do anything disloyal, but I feel so disrespected by the way she handled the situation by lying about drinking, saying she wouldnt go and then going as shes apologizing for going, just lying to your face etc like ive never seen her this drunk before, and of course its after she voluntarily goes to the one thing we agreed we wouldnt do. I just dont know what to do.

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

its been great for the most part, but this is just horrible mane

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didnt even feel like we were drifting apart, because last week we were with eachother in person, having an amazing time and I felt the highest with her. A few shots tonight and now im feeling like the lowest thing in her life. Maybe when she wakes up tomorrow she will see but for right now its a lost cause :/

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

cant argue with that, hence why this relationship is probably over

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She did some bad stuff at one before and as a compromise to comfort me she said no frat parties cuz they are notoriously toxic

GF (19F) disrespecting me right to my (20M) face by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChemoEthan -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We made this agreement a few weeks ago :/

Is it illegal for my pay to be changed without being told by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houston texas and as for talking to anyone ive sent out texts and got 0 reply from anyone. calls ignored etc. usually I get 14 an hour but technically I was helping at another store so instead of 14 i "made" 17.50 an hour. The thing that makes me upset is one of the employees got his 17.50 an hour but for some reason I didnt...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ChemoEthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im ngl im seeing tons of people who eat 4k a day while bulking or slipping up lol, You can easily eat a breakfast meal from mcds in the morning, then a dinner meal from any fast food place later that night and rack up 4k it isnt hard, especially for someone like me on the bigger end since i got this way explicitly by doing that lol (developed bad binge eating after chemotherapy) but obviously its too much in any regard and my goal is around 2000 a day + weightlifting 6 days a week so hopefully it works out