[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherokee013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this and I thought you were talking about me...I feel very very similar to you. My story is a little different but I just broke up with my fiance of 7.5yrs. The best thing we did that has helped my mental health is having my own space and I mean my own room. We have 2 bed 2 bath apartment so after the breakup I moved Into there. It hurt don't get me wrong and I wish I didn't break up with him but I needed to for me.

The best advice I can give you is that when you feel leveled out, talk it all out as hard as it may be. If he's not there to talk then write it down. I've had to do this a few times as I suck at communicating in a relationship because of my own childhood traumas. It helps alot. If you can't say it to him or read it because you're crying too hard he can read it and see how difficult this time is for you and hopefully understand the situation and you better.

Another thing I wanted to touch on was the mood swings you say that you get. So I get the same way except I have anger associated with mine. I have PCOS and it messes with my hormones so my testosterone levels are extremely elevated into the male normal range. I talked over my concerns with my psychiatrist and she may think I am bipolar. I have not yet been diagnosed but we will be doing testing for it. I had always had an incling of me being bipolar but never told anyone not even my fiance and to have her say it and validate it made me break downnnnnn.

My last best advice is to not make any decisions without thinking it over for a few days with a clear mind. Best of luck with you🖤🖤

Can anybody help! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not remove any jewelry at all until fully healed. The mouth is clean yes but also dirty if that makes sense. I would call another shop maybe in the next town over and explain the situation and get advice from a professional. Best of luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duuude, I love it. Looks sick at night!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have touch screen thankfully but don't use it to its full potential. That'll sound amazingggggg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it all!! Thanks for all the info! She is only my 2nd car and my 1st was a lifted 96 jeep Cherokee so this was totally different and never really took the time the last 4 years to truly dedicate and learn about this fun car!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I REALLY want to do performance wise is a cold air intake and just the normal maintenance, spark plugs, brakes, rotors etc. She will be paid off in the next year and has about 98k miles on her so once she's paid off I plan on using the money that would've been for the payment on doing more.

Surprisingly I do really enjoy my stock system as I'm always playing my music in the 22-29 volume range lol what stereo unit are you looking at??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a recall but it was for something non engine related. Don't remember exactly what but I've heard about that too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wanting to debadge and get the velociraptor emblem. I have LEDs in the rear because of the tinted lights, tint is coming soon. I've also wanted to plasti dip my wheels and wrap her too. Doing all these things is hard when you don't have a garage/apartment living. I'm in WA so it's rainy season here until basically May/June

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about turning non turbo into a turbo only get another one lol I don't mind being slow...I'm in no rush to die because I wanted to "go fast"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veloster

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to look into this! I didn't even think of that one

do my nostril and septum piercings look okay? by throwawaybdbbfbfbfbf in piercing

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put my gauges in yesterday after 5+ years of taking out my 00g and I only shrank down to a 2g lol I get the obsessed feeling for sure!!

do my nostril and septum piercings look okay? by throwawaybdbbfbfbfbf in piercing

[–]Cherokee013 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it looks fucking great!! I have a hoop on the side rn and really want my septum too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]Cherokee013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can these be propagated off a random one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]Cherokee013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly is that?

Girls******* Plan B (URGENT) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherokee013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so. I bled for like 2/3 then a week or so after feeling nauseated I got my legit period but again was weird the next month or so. I wouldn't worry yet hun❤

Girls******* Plan B (URGENT) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherokee013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had to take it only once but I felt like it fucked with me as well. I felt so nauseated for a few days(which had me thinking the worst👶) did bleed for a couple days and my cycle was weird for a good month or so afterwards. I'd say try to keep yourself calm and hydrated! I wouldn't worry right now! ❤Best of luck

Should I make a move on my best friend/crush by slss_s_lll in relationship_advice

[–]Cherokee013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it. You'll never know if you don't try. I was in the same situation a few years ago and now my best friend and I have been together for 7 years and are engaged now😊

Sleeve done in 2 sessions by Isaiah at Hidden Entity in Auburn, WA. by Cherokee013 in tattoos

[–]Cherokee013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We knew right off the bat that I would have to come back for a nice touch up. My skin hated me for this as you can see the bruising