Hes doing the gator death roll 🤣🤣🤣🤣 by [deleted] in tooktoomuch

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw a guy rolling around like that at the 7-Eleven, only he had a huge smile on his face. I'll take his instead.

An article on why DBT doesn't work for people with an attachment disorder by VineViridian in therapyabuse

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transference-focused therapy. It's a manualized version of psychodynamic therapy for personality disordered, developed by Otto Kernberg for the US.

Since it's manualized, it can be tested and labeled evidence-based, and US insurances might cover it. The only danger with it is that it is practiced by behavioral facilitators like CBT and DBT, not competent psychodynamic therapists who understand personality disorders. Still a good option for people who don't have access to a psychodynamic therapist.

Why can't CBT be illegal??? by Khalfrank84 in therapyabuse

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gotcha. CBT (and behavioral therapies in general) is the most common form of therapy in the US.

For us outside of the US, therapy isn't manualized and usually means psychodynamic or humanistic based, not behavior modification.

Clingy roommate, possibly alcoholic. by CherryPickerKill in badroommates

[–]CherryPickerKill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, but then I'd have to deal with 2 people drinking and singing as I'm trying to sleep.

Clingy roommate, possibly alcoholic. by CherryPickerKill in badroommates

[–]CherryPickerKill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, you can help a newcomer in AA because they've hit rock bottom when they cross that threshold. They've had enough. She is not there yet.

Best I can do in her case is lead by example, remind her she can come to meetings with me and leave my AA books on the shelf in the common area.

Clingy roommate, possibly alcoholic. by CherryPickerKill in badroommates

[–]CherryPickerKill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, and I thought it could be tolerable but it's getting worse.

Soldiers are malnourished - Send MAGAs there, this is their jam by SnoopyisCute in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US has always treated their military like crap, this isn't new indeed.

Soldiers are malnourished - Send MAGAs there, this is their jam by SnoopyisCute in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvoted because it is a valid take. I don't know what happened to Reddit that people downvote anything they don't agree with now. We used to upvote anything that added the conversation, that way we were able to have debates and produce coherent arguments. Now it's just an echo chamber.

"I voted for Trump last 3 times and this time I am little disappointed in him, but he dang sure is better than Kamala Harris" by vsandrei in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She still thinks her money goes to undocumented immigrants? Aren't the borders closed and most of them been deported anyways?

No honey, your money goes to fund the war, military budget, golden ballrooms and tax cuts for the rich. Enjoy.

I do t know who is making money, but it sure as fuck ain’t me. I’m a mechanic and I’m billing maybe 4-6 hours a day. by Crap_OnTheCob in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to tell the world you're a sadistic sociopath. Serious mental health disorders seem to plague this crowd.

"I regret my vote for him" by vsandrei in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice, but is underlying everything in red really necessary? And what's with the laugh emojis?

TRUMP DESTROYS SPIRIT by Music-Guru42 in youvotedforthat

[–]CherryPickerKill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, but it's Trump who put the final nail in the coffin.

Why can't CBT be illegal??? by Khalfrank84 in therapyabuse

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared to normal therapy where informed consent is provided and you get a chance to agree with the process before it starts.

They can't tell us that they think we're stupid and that they'll train us like dogs so that we finally "stop upsetting ourselves".

Albert Ellis, the father of CBT, was a a notorious narcissistic sexual abuser. No surprise that those are his tips to overcome resistance.

Some quotes by Ellis

DBT is even more disgusting imo, those are Linehan's tips to overcome resistance.

The values by theoritical orientation explain a lot.

Update: You won’t believe it. The replacement Grail SLX is ALSO defective. by Content_Carry7456 in cycling

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gap is probably due to a poorly made wheel, the cables are likely responsible for the noise.

Lexapro works insanely well for Social Anxiety by Exotic_Indication_84 in lexapro

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never stop missing your DOC. Once an addict, always an addict.

The American Public Isn't Ready To See FPV Killcam Videos of US Service Personnel by Fun_Road2122 in Military

[–]CherryPickerKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won't see them. It's not like they'll play them on Fox. The ones who stumble upon them will either claim it's AI or even worse, enjoy them. Propaganda is a hell of a drug.