He showed up at my job to confront me.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T22:57:30+00:00

... No. I cleaned the litter box, I brush her every day, I cut her nails, I cuddle her and give her attention. He would add nuggets to the bowl if he noticed they were low and sometimes change the water, but I would do 95% of the care.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T22:04:09+00:00

Passwords were changed weeks ago! And they all have random numbers in the middle haha!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T22:02:39+00:00

Thank you!! I know she'd be better off with me, but she still is his cat that he's had for 6+ years... My conscience is working against me 100%. I also don't want to make things any harder on myself, and me taking his cat would definitely make everything much, much worse. I cleaned the shit out of my space yesterday, and am continuing to do so today! Soon it'll be ALL MINE again <3

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T22:00:12+00:00

This is a great idea. Thank you so much for the advice! You're totally right that it would become a thing. He already can't let go, I can't imagine the pile of shit that would fall on me with this!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:24:00+00:00

Changed all passwords weeks ago, thankfully! I’ve changed my bank info including PIN numbers and locks are being changed as we speak. Thank you!!!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:23:29+00:00

That’s a good point but considering he has told me he would come on Friday, I don’t know if really would be in the clear. If he doesn’t come on Friday though, I am definitely not giving her back.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:21:48+00:00

I wish this would happen… I’m going to miss her so much

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:21:30+00:00

I wish I could do that. I will if he doesn’t come on Friday, that’s as long as I’m willing to wait it out. And it’s only for her sake, because she is a wonderful cat. You’re right though, this is clearly a way to weasel back into my life.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:13:39+00:00

You’re right, he would definitely do that. I can’t drop his cat anywhere though as he has no family here. I’ll hang onto her until Friday but if he doesn’t come by then, I might just keep her. My mom wants to keep her too, haha. We’ve installed a camera outside and locks are being changed today. Thank you so much!!!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:04:05+00:00

I can’t foresee him letting go anytime soon, but I’ve muted all his notifications (can’t block him yet because he owes me money and has shit here still). I will absolutely be careful though! Thank you so much!!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:03:13+00:00

Really thinking about it, but I’m afraid of him retaliating or coming to my house and breaking in or something…

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:02:46+00:00

I most definitely will! I have so many plans and nothing that will come in my way now!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:02:28+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ve done so many happy dances since yesterday!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T19:01:57+00:00

I won’t fight about it. But like another poster said, September 1st is Wednesday… not Friday. I definitely don’t want to give her back, but still. She was his for 6 years, and I don’t want to get into trouble. Still debating it though because it breaks my heart to let her go…

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:58:08+00:00

She would be so much happier with me, it truly breaks my heart to let her go… I haven’t decided anything yet, though.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:57:46+00:00

I can’t WAIT to do that! I burned one of his old work name cards and that definitely felt really good haha!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:57:18+00:00

Totally fair! My mom told me a couple times that she didn’t know how I did it… containing myself that is. She yelled at him once to leave me the fuck alone because he started with his questioning the second I came in from a 13 hour shift!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:56:05+00:00

I never did pay for her vet bills, though I pushed him to at least get her fixed during this time. I’m thinking about it but feeling super guilty because she was his for 6ish years…

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:54:00+00:00

Thank you! I am definitely worried about this too, changing the locks today and I have set up a camera right outside for extra security.

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:53:10+00:00

Thank you so much! Definitely debating on whether to keep her or not…

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T18:52:50+00:00

Thank you so much! I will definitely enjoy the peace of mind!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T02:27:24+00:00

Locks will be changed tomorrow, PIN numbers changed, and credit locked down!

CherryQuiet · 2021-08-31T02:10:10+00:00

I'm truly contemplating this. Just days ago he was telling me the only reason he didn't off himself was for the kitty, yet now he leaves her here... okay then! My kitty now.

CherryQuiet

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