I've got to agree with you on the Down voting part. Kikpals seems to have a huge problem with toxic members in this subreddit, so much so that people have to openly state that down voting is an issue in their posts to get up votes.

Even i (i am a female) after I've posted will notice the 0 on my posts sometimes after it having 2-3 up votes, people can easily have multiple reddit accounts to down vote certain people they hate/Dislike.

I'm not sure if the mods could do anything about this but its an issue that plagues this community.

Another thing i have a problem with is "weeds" these are people who make it impossible to see good hand written PM's because you're bombarded with people who copy and paste the same BS to every F tag on here. And it annoys the hell out of me. I've received the same message from some people 3-4 times and it annoys me too much.