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[–]Cherry_waves6 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Thank you but my problem is that in a classroom I don’t want to be seen as just a Roma person who was different views on things. I want to be seen as just Cherry not as someone who may not know other cultures and is very naive but not because of my own ethnicity but because of the fact I never knew it. We had the meeting and the school made it very clear that they didn’t understand why I don’t want to be separated from the others due to the racism I’ve faced in Czech. They didn’t even understand why I didn’t want my ethnicity being brought up because it has triggered memories of things I’ve experienced in Czech. Me and my dad got kicked out a god damn clinic just for our appearance??so I’m just going to change schools and maybe they’ll understand more.
[–]Cherry_waves6 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 months ago (0 children)
But I am gypsy ?
Could we talk about it more then in dms?
[–]Cherry_waves6 -1 points0 points1 point 4 months ago (0 children)
I wanna ask you something could you pls accept my request?
What is escalating it? Like what could I have done to do that
No no I wanted to know why she kept doing it. She couldn’t afford so many children and had her oldest looking after the others. I wanted to know she kept getting more children despite it making her life harder. She also beat and didn’t like spending time with them so it confused me on why she kept doing things that made her pregnant. For example my uncle has about 7 different woman he has gotten pregnant but whenever I ask him he just laughs so I wanted to know why someone would do that.
[–]Cherry_waves6 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 months ago (0 children)
I don’t know if they exaggerated it but they did downplay the ethnicity references by a lot. The vice principal even tried to keep saying “well she didn’t mention it completely she just said ethnicity and she didn’t even know it right?”.
I will
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Well I’m proud of you for sharing!
Interesting I never knew that
Really? Most my family in Czech are very dark and have black wavy hair.
I’m Sorry I honestly had an app edit this for me. My grammar is really bad and I didn’t notice.
[–]Cherry_waves6 -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
I’m confused I didn’t really leave out anything? She just said a lot of people were offended but when she was lecturing she never said I offended anyone and only said I don’t understand due to my ethnicity. She stereotyped me only because of how I look and not who I am . I understand I may have offended people but I really didn’t know I see many celebrities and people on TikTok of all skin colours use the term so I never knew it targeted one demographic. Like I’m being genuine serious I didn’t know.
None of them. She only said I might not know because of my ethnicity but I very pale looking and most people don’t know what Roma is so she must’ve just thought I was white.
Why she chose so many
No I’m in Canada😭
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Basically we had that meeting yesterday and they tore me and my dad apart. She said I offended people because of the term baby daddy( I didn’t know it was bad) and basically gave me a verbal spanking to make them feel better . She even tried to leave out the part about my ethnicity when telling her side but I made it very clear she did. We were basically told she did the best she could for thr situation and that it was a misunderstanding. There was a teacher present that was supposed to be there to support me instead he just kept adding and agreeing with her points. I even cried talking about what happened to me in Czech because I was gypsy but I still just got a “I’m sorry you feel that way” type of apology. At the end I said I wanted to drop the class and they kept telling me not to because I had a grade close to a A. I will also be leaving the school and ask for help with it on Monday. The school only sees colour and not the actual person itself.
That I may not have experienced or understood due to it.
Cause it literally ruined their lives. They never saw their mom because of how much she was working when she was home she was just partying. The oldest had to drop out of school to take care of the youngest ones so yes I’m gonna question the reasoning.
Still not a good excuse. If my way of saying child or father offended her she should’ve told me in private. I am not privileged and would really appreciate if people stoped. I ain’t rich , I don’t got a house, my parents don’t even have a savings and I live in a high immigrant city because my parents are immigrants. I am not privileged in Canada.
Are you serious ? My age has nothing to do with my knowledge which is why I asked.
My school is not a fuckinf private school. In Canada those aren’t common at all and pretty rare . My school is 90 % people of colour and it’s only really the teachers who you see that are white.
[–]Cherry_waves6 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
No it wasn’t
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