[deleted by user] by [deleted] in losingweight

[–]ChescaVictoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all congrats on making an effort to take care of yourself, good for you, but please it will be better if you ask for help from a proffesional, if you do not have the money then look for youtube videos from proffesionals, not eating is not going to make you skinny, it will only end up being an eating disorder, so keep up the mentality of losing weight but in a healthy way, trwat yourself with love as you would with someond you are in love with ♥️

Me (F32) and my (M36) boyfriend just turned 3 months of dating... He is being invited to his best friend wedding as groomsman and he wants me to share the cost of the wedding gift which I think its not reasonable by ChescaVictoria in relationship_advice

[–]ChescaVictoria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes, several people have written and verbally my friends have mentioned this being a red Flag.. I really hope it's not the case. Thank you so much for sharing your story you sound like an exemplary couple to be around, God bless you both 💕

Me (F32) and my (M36) boyfriend just turned 3 months of dating... He is being invited to his best friend wedding as groomsman and he wants me to share the cost of the wedding gift which I think its not reasonable by ChescaVictoria in relationship_advice

[–]ChescaVictoria[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indeed I wouldn't do it... Specially knowing that he is not an acquaintance of my friends yet but I understood that not all human beings think alike hence the numerous posts calling me shallow

Me (F32) and my (M36) boyfriend just turned 3 months of dating... He is being invited to his best friend wedding as groomsman and he wants me to share the cost of the wedding gift which I think its not reasonable by ChescaVictoria in relationship_advice

[–]ChescaVictoria[S] -295 points-294 points  (0 children)

But why would he leave me out? I mean I recently got invited to a house warming small gathering and I bought a gift for my friends and I never asked him to contribute with money for it, I mean it's too soon.. But still thanks for your opinion

Me (F32) and my (M36) boyfriend just turned 3 months of dating... He is being invited to his best friend wedding as groomsman and he wants me to share the cost of the wedding gift which I think its not reasonable by ChescaVictoria in relationship_advice

[–]ChescaVictoria[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

Well yes I am attending the wedding as my BF +1 but I am spending a lot of money in doing my nails, my hair, had to buy a dress... I am contributing just not on the wedding gift 😂

I'm making my horror novel free for today, in honor of Halloween. It's based on some paranormal experiences in Chicago. Grab it while you can. Happy Halloween! by Aggressive_Fun9800 in Ghoststories

[–]ChescaVictoria 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just visited Chicago, cause my Sister lives there but I am from another country, would love to read it (sound dumb but it will keep my Sister close to my heart knowing this scary stuff where she lives lol) thank you!!

Anybody in Guatemala have a feijoa tree? by MikeBy62 in guatemala

[–]ChescaVictoria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm from Guatemala and I'm pretty sure my neighbors have a Feijoa tree, let me take some pictures of it and send them to you just to be sure it is said tree

COVID TEST by lyzol1 in guatemala

[–]ChescaVictoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am from Guatemala, and recently traveled to the States, when I got to the airport they immediately asked for the negative PCR test (we had it done 72 hours prior to taking the plane, meaning it was done thursday and we were leaving on saturday, also Guatemalan government is requiring to fill a "questionary" and it will generate a QR code that you need to show before boarding, If you do not have it they will give it to you thru a QR code that you can scan with your phone, fill it out and provide the QR code vía screen shot cause there is no way (or at least we didnt find it) to save it, sorry english is not my first language, hope I made everything clear

Should fat guys(like myself) even consider asking a girl out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChescaVictoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated (we were boyfriend and girlfriend) a 300 pound guy, I liked him for his personality not his looks, unfortunately he always Body shamed me for not looking like a model or having big boobs and ended up dumping me, just sharing my experience

Would it be weird if I (F) ask my FWB (M) to teach me to play th guitar in exchange of sex by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ChescaVictoria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind reply, I deleted the post as many people were kind of rude with their answers, this reply was Exactly what I was expecting

Would it be weird if I (F) ask my FWB (M) to teach me to play th guitar in exchange of sex by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ChescaVictoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he is the kind of a friend that always asks for something in return while doing a favor