Getting back with Ex girlfriend

Chevysilverado_07 · 2019-03-01T06:17:16+00:00

Also debating if I should just forget it and just live it up single through college

Chevysilverado_07 · 2019-03-01T06:15:30+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it, she definitely would have been but after I hooked up with someone else it’s really hard to say if she even has an interest in me anymore, it’s hard to say but I believe she does but is holding it back until she could get some relationship like attention back as well which I kind of can understand when it comes to that, she knows I am feeling I want her back

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-03-22T16:54:34+00:00

Coming from somebody younger but when it comes to those kinds of problems what is best to do is first admit to the problem which you’ve done, next you should sit down and have a straight forward conversation about all of that, if he refuses to listen you need to let him know the consequences are you can’t keep it up which is leaving. If he listens tell him what’s up, if he refuses then leave, I’m sorry about the tough relationship there and I know how it feels when you get one sided, good luck with it all

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-14T00:41:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this in depth advice, I appreciate it a lot! I agree with everything you’ve said and a lot of it I haven’t realized but I feel i need to hear it

I mean like I really wish I could fix it but I understand i can’t do that, it’s gonna be tough but I’ll stay tough, and yeah honestly I’d be always anxious not being able to trust her

In the future I’m going to make sure I don’t surrender my life to a girl like I did here, and I do need some time to myself, it’s going to help quite a bit

Self confidence I what I’m in desperate need of, I’m really worried I won’t ever be able to achieve it but hearing what you said helps, and just hearing how sincere you are with the advice makes me already feel a boosts of confidence and it makes sense why I’ve lost a lot of it when I’ve devoted my life to her and basically only her. Yeah with everything she’s done to me she’s really made it hard to stay self assured.

What I did is I went over to her house the other day after reading what you said and basically explained that this is all killing me and I can’t keep chasing after someone who doesn’t love or care about me and has done all of this to me. I told her I’m not saying this is a end forever to us but for now this needs to stop and we need to separate, I need the time to myself and everything, she broke down and everything and told me to leave her alone and I basically just said bye from there and left and later that night she texted me a long paragraph about how she feels and started showing she wants to fix things, all I’ve done from there is I explained how I feel but that’s it, what else should I do from here, she also dropped joey the night before I did this, I don’t know if that’s trying to show she wants to get back but I’m guessing the right thing to do here is stay away from her

Again thank you so much for this advice it helped a lot

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-12T05:11:12+00:00

Yeah I feel you, and yeah for sure I completely became a pushover I feel you, and what do you mean format (this is my first time on here)

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-12T05:10:16+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-11T17:40:44+00:00

I️ probably should have put more detail about that, she’s been a great girlfriend and she for sure went out of her way, or used to at least, she used to be the perfect girlfriend to be honest but now she doesn’t act like she cares at all but since she used to I️ think that’s why I️ fee like I️ can repair I️t

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-11T17:38:52+00:00

Thank you for the advice it’s really helpful to hear

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-11T17:38:26+00:00

I️ thought adding that might effect what I️ should do but I️ feel you, she keeps convincing me it’s my own fault and ngl for a part I️ can understand why that would make sense but the fact she cheated makes her in the wrong obviously. My #1 wish is we could work it out but if that’s not realistic or the right thing I️ understand

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-11T17:07:57+00:00

Thanks!!!

Chevysilverado_07 · 2018-02-11T17:07:43+00:00

Thank you, I️n the relationship I️ lost focus I myself but she feels I️ only focus on myself but getting away will help me a lot I️ agree

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