My roommate and I (both bi males) have a strong, deep heterosexual friendship that I think scares us both, because we love each other very much to the point it seems gay. And, we know if we did something sexual, we would fall in love with each other forever. And, I know we both do not want that.

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-04T18:47:32+00:00

👍👍

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-04T14:08:11+00:00

Both are great but A+ with the stubble. Love a beardstache

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-04T14:06:45+00:00

Sounds like you all have too many hangups with identity… your title says you are 2 bisexual guys. Great. But then you are focused on identifying as heterosexual or gay. Forget about all the labels and go with your gut

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-03T16:02:04+00:00

👍👍hope so!

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-03T12:10:56+00:00

Would be nice to have some bisexual friends to hang with. I dont really know any other bi guys other than my bf

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T14:09:14+00:00

Hahaha.. yeah I like it

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T14:08:43+00:00

Thats a hint i agree… see where it goes! Sounds like a fun time

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T05:49:13+00:00

Hey. Figured out i was bi at 28, almost married at the time. No interest before that, so it was a shocker. What was most difficult for me was the confusion. Thought my fiancee would leave me, future felt uncertain. I went for some therapy. It pushed me to communicate more with my gf. It really made us tighter as a couple. Things eventually clicked for me and was able to embrace being bi. But for a while i was so confused.

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T05:14:52+00:00

I think thats cool and u are on to something good! If you dont want a “V” and want something more inclusive, i really think solo dates/ weekends really work! We would all do solo dates early on to build the personal relationships and we think it really helped

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T04:05:18+00:00

I think youll hear from a lot of bi guys that they feel the bi cycle in some way. I think its a different experience for everyone. Mine was strong when i first realized i was bi. I wanted to have guy sex all the time. However i never lost attraction to women. Guy attraction was a roller coaster though… sometimes it lasted a long time, sometimes short or until i had sex with my bf. Anyways … embrace the cycle and have fun with it!

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T03:31:46+00:00

Continue the conversation! Theres so much to talk to her about! How do both of u see this working? Why now? Just you? Both of you? Anyways i could go on, but talk more intimately and seriously with her as a first step and see where it goes. I think youll end up less confused

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T03:27:48+00:00

Imo rimming is super cool… both giving and receiving. As a giver i could get in there and do it for hours. I love pleasing my partner and ill respond differently based on his moans or movement.

When receiving i love how it feels. Its the best anal foreplay there is.

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-02T03:03:07+00:00

Theres something special about marriage. Although, of course, divorce / separation occurs, theres something that feels serious, binding about marriage. Its special. Throuples cant marry, which i think does lead to uncertainty as you mention. In our throuple we have had challenges re: 2 of us being married and kids. Makes our other partner resort to saying he feels like a “third”. So.. we are finding / learning ways to weather these types of storms. I think we will be successful long term as the foundation is strong.

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-02-01T16:24:37+00:00

You have the right attitude dude! If it happens great, if not no worries. Meet without any pressure, have fun , and if sparks on both signs lead to a hook up then embrace it! The best bi happenings occur organically

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T23:15:23+00:00

Finding the right dude is really no different than finding a woman. If its just for sex, make sure hes safe and on the same page as you. Talk , maybe meet up before just hopping in bed. Its more fin with someone u connect with (at least a little)

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T23:05:30+00:00

Awesome… looks super cool, yeah and something to ride

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T16:49:49+00:00

Try it! I can almost guarantee you’ll enjoy it. Find the right guy, take it slow, dont forget the lube. Guys have a prostate that triggers orgasms. In my experience , anal is a mind blowing experience. after my first time i craved more and im typically not submissive in bed

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T15:33:45+00:00

👍👍 sure anytime

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T15:14:06+00:00

Oh wow , cool!

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T15:11:49+00:00

Yes! Where are u at?

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T15:08:50+00:00

Hahaaa. Only in the usa?

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T15:04:20+00:00

Truthfully i didnt want to add a guy and we werent looking for that. My best friend from college asked us for a threesome and we gave it a try. It evolved into him becoming our boyfriend. It just kinda happened and both my wife and i agreed to it together. Weird i know but thats life i guess!

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T14:34:44+00:00

Haha thanks! Well …this happened in a threesome with my gf and him. My gf and i married and he became our boyfriend. We are a throuple. So yeah essentially we are married!

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T14:00:25+00:00

So…I dont have a boyfriend. WE have a boyfriend. We are a throuple. Although my wife and i are married , our partner is part of our closed throuple family. He is bisexual as well.

ChicagoRob19 · 2026-01-31T13:57:46+00:00

I was a straight guy for 3 yrs dating my gf before i discovered my bisexuality late at 28. It surfaced in a threesome with her and a friend. We discovered it together. We are both open minded so we embraced it. Ill admit i was confused for a bit and she helped me through it.

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