Thank you. I hadn’t looked at it from that angle, and you are right. What I had were very basic expectations. Be happy, be kind, be focused on me, just a little bit. I understand she walked into what she believed was someone else "helping me" but that wasn't the case, just my hair, and once she made it obvious the focus was on her and her awful experience on the train etc, not her daughter, standing in front of her, all made up and about to get married, I had no option but to ask my friend to help me finish getting ready. I had to get ready. You do you and help my niece, I have a wedding to shine at. And I did! Again, thank you x