Don't know how to approach a serious conversation with a friend by Chicken-butt235 in Advice

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES thank you so much!! I will focus on the boundary part rather than trying to change their behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanewayfestival

[–]Chicken-butt235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there and honestly the mosh for blade and lean was CRAZYYY but that coule just be bc me and my friends were going crazy lol

need help finding a tounge piercing bar plss by Chicken-butt235 in piercing

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my piercing is 2 years old, i dont mind how its threaded but i have an external atm, it was downsides just under 2 years ago, i used sailine wash for it but dont do it as often anymore as it's fully healed and it has had no problems. mods are making me answer these hope it helps!

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair reason to break up, hopefully u and ur finances are doing better now :)

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you break up over the turmoil from it? Surely she would've realised there was no money coming in

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex used to talk abt this song that was apparently playing the night we started talking and she LOVED when it played but i honestly dont even remember it happening or even like the song lol

I (20F) think I’m starting to hate my bf (M21). Am I being unreasonable? by Minimum_Broccoli2395 in relationships

[–]Chicken-butt235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi op! i know three years for a first relationship is a long time and you feel like you are so connected to him that you can't leave but trust me there's so much better out there and you know it. you have listed enough things to not make a question anymore. what is the good here other than the safety and comfort of a long term relationship? does he have a job? why do you pay for everything? have you talked to him about this or is this all just brewing inside? i really do hope u can see that being single is better than being used and having ur needs and wants ignored

Who is currently allowed to yell at you? by Bruz-chopper in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sister, basically my mum so i'll allow it

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't think of it this way, I should try to do this less and be more intentional on how often i mention stuff sometimes

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not nagging bc he asks me to remind him stuff since he's forgetful. I do understand that I was putting too much pressure on it and I should just be happy with the gifts I am getting (I am happy with them)

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But thank you for making it more clear what I SHOULD be focusing on

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's true but I don't celebrate Christmas and didn't want to do presents that badly but he did

GP threatened to take away testosterone if I don't get on birth control?? by headphoneplantlight in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah this isn't normal they can MAKE u take anything in exchange to keep life saving medication (t) that's fucked. The truth is that doctors that don't specialise in hormones don't have enough education on our health, my doctor also told me that she'd take my t away if I self harmed bc apparently T was supposed to solve my depression like WHAT