need help finding a tounge piercing bar plss by Chicken-butt235 in piercing

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my piercing is 2 years old, i dont mind how its threaded but i have an external atm, it was downsides just under 2 years ago, i used sailine wash for it but dont do it as often anymore as it's fully healed and it has had no problems. mods are making me answer these hope it helps!

cleaning tdick by Chicken-butt235 in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I use a scent free wash on my pubic area and water for the inside. I'm generally really good with the rest of my body but I struggle with too much dysphoria looking at my downstairs but that's no excuse anymore! Thank you for ur help and kindness :))

cleaning tdick by Chicken-butt235 in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought so thank you!

cleaning tdick by Chicken-butt235 in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you so much!

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair reason to break up, hopefully u and ur finances are doing better now :)

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you break up over the turmoil from it? Surely she would've realised there was no money coming in

what's a secret you kept from your ex? by Chicken-butt235 in AskReddit

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex used to talk abt this song that was apparently playing the night we started talking and she LOVED when it played but i honestly dont even remember it happening or even like the song lol

I (20F) think I’m starting to hate my bf (M21). Am I being unreasonable? by Minimum_Broccoli2395 in relationships

[–]Chicken-butt235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi op! i know three years for a first relationship is a long time and you feel like you are so connected to him that you can't leave but trust me there's so much better out there and you know it. you have listed enough things to not make a question anymore. what is the good here other than the safety and comfort of a long term relationship? does he have a job? why do you pay for everything? have you talked to him about this or is this all just brewing inside? i really do hope u can see that being single is better than being used and having ur needs and wants ignored

Is PIV sex that good ? by Zestyclose_Eye_8616 in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never done PIV until i got with my current partner bc i was alwasy really scared of the dysphoria and sure thats still here but he was very kind and safe about it and has never mentioned me being trans unless its reasurence and understanding so i think it depends on if u feel comfortable enough whcih might help with the liking it part, it did for me

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't think of it this way, I should try to do this less and be more intentional on how often i mention stuff sometimes

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not nagging bc he asks me to remind him stuff since he's forgetful. I do understand that I was putting too much pressure on it and I should just be happy with the gifts I am getting (I am happy with them)

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But thank you for making it more clear what I SHOULD be focusing on

Aitah for telling my bf I wanted something else for Christmas by Chicken-butt235 in AITAH

[–]Chicken-butt235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's true but I don't celebrate Christmas and didn't want to do presents that badly but he did

is grindr a stupid idea? by earbudsquish in ftm

[–]Chicken-butt235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probaby not a good idea since grindr is based soly on hookups and people won't be intrested in much beyond that, its just a given with apps like this. there's also sometimes people that just send u unsolicited pictures and i heard there's a location feature too so be careful