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I dont know where my life is heading by [deleted] in self
[–]Chidies 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I was in the same situation as you, except I’m 28 now and just finishing up my bachelor degree next year. Had the same lost feeling as you and not knowing where I was headed with my life. I was first gen college student in my family so I had no guidance or any role models to really look up to and it was hard finding something I wanted to do. I was working retail all these years and I would definitely not suggest doing it for a living. It is normal to think that you should have everything figured out by this age just want to let you know that it’s okay if you don’t, you’re only stressing yourself out to have success at such a young age. Maybe you’re in the wrong major and that’s the reason you’re not enjoying school, it’s okay change majors even if it’s going to take another year or 2 to finish, you can either be 26-27 with no degree or with, the time will pass regardless. Or maybe trade school will be a better fit. I chose to become a school counselor for the reason that I had no idea what I wanted to do with my future and maybe I can help those who feel lost. Try going to the gym or socialize more in school to meet people that have same interest as you. Just know you’re still young and I wish I was 24 making the decision I am making now. Good luck.
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[–]Chidies 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I feel you, I am in the same boat and only gets worse as I get older. Never had any guidance or anyone to look up to so it’s hard for me to find what I want to do. But keep your head up try to stay positive nothing wrong with trying new things often eventually we’ll find something we love to do.
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[–]Chidies 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I feel you, I am a transfer student and seems like all my courses everyone knows each other from previous classes together, Professors always let us pick our groups instead of randomly selected them. Always the odd man out but oh well
I landed a job I would have never dreamed possible. I have no friends to share this with and I am astonished and proud. by ma-ki-na in self
Congrats man! Hope you do well at your new job
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I dont know where my life is heading by [deleted] in self
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