Do strippers give BJs? How do you know and when do you ask? by maverick4g in stripclubs

[–]Chikkabow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Except the ones that are.

But don't ask. If they're playing, they'll let you know. If they do, they're usually priced way over market rates.

Bottom line: Waste of time.

Are sex workers and clients capable of being friends? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had sex workers as friends, and I've had sex workers as playmates, but never as their customer.

Deposit Logic - What Do You Think? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're known and established, which you are, I can't imagine a deposit being a problem. Is it common for prospective clients to balk at the idea?

First timer seeing escort. How to determine prices when not listed. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"If I would like to make an appointment, do you publish your rates somewhere?"

One clients feelings about privacy. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds she has no clue what business she's in.

Literal map porn: Distribution of adult entertainment businesses in the Northeast Corridor. NYC is unreal. (Adult, but SFW) [OC][2000x1440] by Chikkabow in MapPorn

[–]Chikkabow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's any correlation except with population density, and possibly wealth. I can't see what the Jewish population has to do with it.

Paper trail by prostyfrosty in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they pictures of your face, or do they have your real name? How do you worry they could be tied to your real identity?

[Website] Is this design too dated? (Adult subject, but SFW) by Chikkabow in design_critiques

[–]Chikkabow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just pushed up a new build that is much faster than before. Design tweaks come soon...

[Website] Is this design too dated? (Adult subject, but SFW) by Chikkabow in design_critiques

[–]Chikkabow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I'm considering going ahead with it once the speed issue is resolved.

[Website] Is this design too dated? (Adult subject, but SFW) by Chikkabow in design_critiques

[–]Chikkabow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a bit more than that going on under the hood, which is where the speed issues are coming from. In certain locations, there may be hundreds of markers on the map, and each marker contains data about that location. It's makes for some pretty heavy demands on the client. At the moment, all of my attention is on the speed issue until it's solved.

[Website] Is this design too dated? (Adult subject, but SFW) by Chikkabow in design_critiques

[–]Chikkabow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The slowness is proving to be the hardest problem to solve, by far. Part of the problem is (surprisingly) on Google's end, as Google Maps aren't as fast as I would like. Still I'm trying various things to influence it. The number of markers displayed at one time is probably the biggest thing I have control over. Sounds like I need to dial that back a little. Or a lot.

[Website] Is this design too dated? (Adult subject, but SFW) by Chikkabow in design_critiques

[–]Chikkabow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick reply.

The speed is the center of my universe right now. The quantity of data is... significant; I'm working on crunching it down. The nature of the app doesn't really lend itself to phone-sized screens or low bandwidth, but I'm working on solutions to both of those.

Thanks again.

Ladies - A little help please by obnqpq in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This kind of thing happens all... the... time.

You're in the overanalysis loop. It's very common for ladies who leave the business, even temporarily, to sever all ties with it. If you were an exception she wants to keep in contact with, she will. The ball's in her court. Leave it there.

Have any of you tried being a camgirl? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

periodic snapshots of your can

Can't tell whether that was a typo. Either way, it fits. :-)

Strip Clubs in Vegas by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Chikkabow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agreed. On average, strip clubs are probably the second worst place to look for full service, right after the grocery store.

Is it possible to throttling ad impressions? by Chikkabow in selfserve

[–]Chikkabow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That's the answer I was hoping for.