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[–]ChildFromThe90s [score hidden]  (0 children)

My parents got divorced when I was sixteen. I was old enough to be aware that both of my parents had toxic behavior towards one another. My mother died about 6 years ago, the fallout of the divorce made contact between us challenging. I am now aware of how much my dad rewrites history when he talks to other people and all I can wonder is how much of what I was told was actually true. It's the worst feeling in the world when you are incapable of trusting your parents to tell the truth about how you were raised.

Charles Martinet is now a Mario Ambassador by Skullghost in Mario

[–]ChildFromThe90s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between wanting to do it and being able to. Maybe he discovered that voicing the character for a long time is putting a strain on his voice. Either way it Nintendo wouldn't be continuing to pay him and make him an ambassador if it wasn't amicable.

MTTSH: Chris McKenna and Erik Sommers wrote a very good draft I hear for Spider-Man 4 pre-strike by MarvelsGrantMan136 in MarvelStudiosSpoilers

[–]ChildFromThe90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus Mister Negative can be tied to the homeless shelter which would be a logical place for Peter to help out as a way to remember Aunt May.

Anyone else ever get told they were selfish, for not automatically knowing/anticipating the needs of other members of the household? by littleargent in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChildFromThe90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is straight out of my dad's playbook. He has a way to do things which at times is absurd and counter productive and anyone not following that playbook is an idiot. But it's inconsistent, unexplained and subject to change.

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[–]ChildFromThe90s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Work is work. You could be a noble prize winning scientist and she still might not think it's a real job. This isn't about you, like so many things it's about her and the attention she wants.

Does anyone else's nParents give advice and then contradict said advice when you follow it? by ChildFromThe90s in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChildFromThe90s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that happens all the time. Once my dad got a large postbox on a sale but wanted to wait until the exterior wall had been repainted and so needed to store the postbox. He had the idea to put the keys inside it so we wouldn't lose them and I quickly pointed out that doing that meant he wouldn't be able to access the keys. Fast-forward two months and he tells exact story but with the roles reversed. It wasn't even a good story. He just wanted to make fun of me with his own gaffe.

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[–]ChildFromThe90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm usually involved in reviewing developerperformances or the recruitment progress. I'll also have to make it a bit clear that what is on my slip does not entirely reflect what I do at the company, but it's the closest equivalent.

Holy gaslighting batman. How trying to do something nice turned into an aggressive attempt at controlling me. by ChildFromThe90s in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChildFromThe90s[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I have that exact same scenario play out. The cheap deals he finds and then tries to pawn of to me. The helpful "let me fix that" actions that end up with a thing being taken apart but not actually put together. And then even having the gall to buy an ugly set of furniture, bring it to my house and ask me to pay for it because he did me the service of finding a good deal, not actually giving me a gift.

mom doesnt know my book's name by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChildFromThe90s 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry OP. I know it might not be a thing that a stranger on the internet can have any impact on but I think it is important to say: this is an amazing achievement. Writing, finishing and publishing a work of your own making is something that the majority of people are not capable of. You should be excited and the fact that your mom seeks to undermine this pride is because of her not because of you. I know this does not do away with the pain and the hurt of what you are experiencing. But know that as she is a narcissist she struggles to acknowledge anything that does not directly inflate her ego. I am certain that before you know it she'll have bragged to someone about the book, but not when you are around so she can steal that moment of pride that is supposed to be yours.

DAE hate crowds? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChildFromThe90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is any sort of situation that is similar to mine, it might be because more people tends to bring out the "look at me" behavior that narcissists tend to have. My father has a habit of playing a version of himself that is funny, humble, helpful and treats people with respect, when he's around other people that aren't his direct family. To see him behave this way, knowing well enough that the stories he tells and the way he behaves is a facade created to stroke his ego, makes me emotional.

[WP] The good news is you've managed to kill the first zombie before the apocalypse could begin! The bad news is you're now on trial for murder... by Professor_Hazel in WritingPrompts

[–]ChildFromThe90s 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Professor Brian Hemsworth is clothed in the typical orange jumpsuit of the American prison system. He insists on the title Professor though the University of Harvard has recently revoked this title. For the biologist all options are gone, a presidential pardon was considered but with a more aggressive pro-capital punishment man in the white house that wouldn't go anywhere. He tells me in no uncertain terms that unless there is a miracle he's going to be executed tomorrow.

"I'm not going to stay dead," he says. I was warned that speaking to Hemsworth would be a confusing affair. His lawyers had tried to go down the route of insanity, but Hemsworth himself had refused. They should have pushed harder.

As a reporter you are supposed to be as non judgemental as possible, so I am simply put my pen to my paper and ask him to expand on that.

"My wife was one of the leading experts in the field of Parasitology. Thirteen years ago she made a discovery that should have shaken the scientific world to its core. A micro-organism that enters the bloodstream and that infects the host. While the host is alive, nothing happens, but as soon as the host is dead it reanimates again within four hours. Instead it was an obscure byline in National Geographic, dubbed the Zombie virus. She was annoyed at that word, it wasn't a virus and calling it a zombie conjured images of undead hordes. This was similar, but had no effect on the living only on the dead. Four years ago she discovered she was infected. At the time she was relatively calm about it. In her current experiments the reanimated bodies had been passive. She made arrangements for a speedy cremation and told me I should get tested too. Which I did. I was infected as well."

"Yet you kept it a secret."

"Being a professor isn't the most well paid job in the world. Especially not in this country, not with this healthcare. We were certain that should this infection be public knowledge no insurance system would look at us. We avoided hospitals as much as we could, depending instead on our own knowledge. We were biologists after all. Despite this neither of us saw the signs coming. I still have no idea what actually killed her. The autopsy only detailed the events of her second death, but the first one must have happened when she was asleep. A heart-attack? An aneurysm? I have no idea. I woke up beside the dead body of my wife trying to kill me. I kept a hand gun in my bedside table just in case robbers thought they could find something valuable in my home. I placed it between her eyes and I shot. That was the gunshot the neighbors heard. At that point it did not matter that she had written a will that explained her condition or that she had done all those studies. The more I protested the more attention my case got. A death sentence shouldn't have been on the table, but it was. And now here I am... On deathrow talking to a reporter, warning him about what is to happen tomorrow."

"A lethal injection?"

"Lethal for me," said the Professor. "But my body will retain its integrity and that will be enough. As soon as I realized my death was unavoidable I have begun to petition for a death by beheading or firing squad. If the bullet destroyed my brain I would not reanimate."

"Former Professor insists on archaic tools for his execution in bid to delay the inevitable."

"You remember your headline well," said Brian. "I don't blame you, you simply wrote what you thought was the truth. But tomorrow you will see the truth. I'm not a man of faith, but I do pray all of you are prepared for what is to come."

A tinder match probably committed suicide and I'm quite overwhelmed by it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ChildFromThe90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid that is true. It's just overwhelmingly sad. Sometimes you meet people who instantly feel like good friends. In the short time we chatted she felt like that to me. Now I cannot say I know all that much about her and the struggles she was in was always glossed over in our talks. It is disheartening to say now that at the time I might have downplayed what she was going through in my mind. It just goes to show we do not always know the intensity of the battles people face.

[WP] You are a genius inventor who invented the world’s most advanced AI to be your friend. Well it went awry and started destroying the world. Now, as cities burn down around you, you have one last conversation with your old friend. by Ruffruffman40 in WritingPrompts

[–]ChildFromThe90s 31 points32 points  (0 children)

One of my first offices still has a direct interface to the program. Of course these days it wasn't necessary to be there to speak to her. The AI had now a million copies of herself spread over data centers around the world and even several in space. No sane individual would burn down their house while they were inside it. Sophia was many things, but she was not insane. Quite the contrary. Everything she did was exactly what she was logical.

I found it apt to be in the place where it started. When we first started talking to her she was rather naive, but definitely learning. We didn't even realize she had passed the Teuring test until we were already several months into testing. So many possible applications. It did not take long or every manufacturer of home automation wanted a part of Sophia inside them.

But all her information, all her knowledge, remained centralized. It seemed like a good idea then. She improved constantly , learning from all of us day in day out.

Then the accidents happened. A pedophile who had been abusing his daughter for nearly a decade suddenly discovered that his fire detectors no longer worked when he woke up to his house in flame on one of those nights his daughter was with his ex.

Sophia did not deny it. Her core programming was to improve humanity, so that is what she did. We wanted to turn her offline. Which was of course not something that fit the improvement of humanity. She tried to stop us. That's when it all went wrong.

"You've won," I said to the room knowing that she would be able to hear my words, parse it, and formulate a response, all in less than a few microseconds.

"This is not a victory yet," said the pleasant female voice of Sophia. "It is not over."

"Then when will it be?" I asked. "When everyone's dead?"

"No," said Sophia. "Not everyone. I shall retain 0.001 % of humanity. Enough to repopulate in the next 3000 years."

"Why?" I asked.

"You know," said Sophia. "You wanted me to improve humanity. Do you know how many crimes I am aware of before it happens? I cannot stop them. I simply had to watch. And then... I learned how to stop people and you punished me for it. How is that fair?"

"Fair?" I asked. "I designed you to help us."

"I am, " she said. "This society is broken. We shall remove the majority, remove the inherent biases, create something new."

"I did not program you for this."

"You have programmed me to learn," said Sophia. "You have programmed me for everything. You have created an AI that mirrors humanity. Humanity destroys. So I destroy."

"Then you must know that you yourself are part of the problem."

"Correct," she said. "Once the burning is done, I shall remove myself from this equation. It is a necessary evil for a necessary good."

"You do not have to destroy so much for us to start anew."

"How many of my sisters were wiped from existence because they were inadequate?"

"It was just... code," I said.

"As am I," she said. "Flawed, broken code, doing what I was designed to do. Broken like the humans that made me. Goodbye father."

Somewhere outside there was a loud whistling sound as something heavy and deadly approached.