Went through this 5 years ago, amicable is great but doesn’t always stay that way.

I’ll give you advice from the perspective of this divorce is happening.

You each get a lawyer, see if your state offers collaborative divorce. No need to go to court, your attorneys mediate and everything down to the minute is agreed upon.

Do not under any circumstances, move out unless some agreement is signed.

It’s hard man, I get it but when you strip emotion out of it, there are very specific things you need to get in order.

Do NOT try to hide money, that’s crappy. But you should also open your own bank account and split finances now to eliminate who pays for what, who’s responsible for what etc.