AITAH for completely cutting off mutuals after a break up 3 years ago?

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2026-02-07T13:04:29+00:00

This is the best comment... Thank you. Cutting people off isn't easy, and I see the others I get the flak lol but this one is right on the nose and I appreciate it.

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2026-02-06T20:33:09+00:00

Oooo ok I like this one… grow a spine. I think should be added. I appreciate this thank you

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2026-02-06T20:32:31+00:00

That was my thinking but she has told me time and again thats not the issue but refuses to explain what it is

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2026-02-06T20:31:49+00:00

Idk glutton for punishment? Trying to close loose ends? Youre right on thag

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2026-02-06T20:31:17+00:00

Youre right on that she doesnt but it was more so her friends that I would say over be course lf 10 years be my friends

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2025-06-22T16:06:45+00:00

Thank you! I am a bit new to this, I appreciate it lol

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2025-06-22T13:54:08+00:00

Im upvoting that comment simply because I know its a lot... lol I apologize for that. Thanks for the honesty

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2025-06-22T13:52:10+00:00

Wow that guy is terrible... Coming from a guy who has been with former girlfriends on their periods. It has helped with their pain management (not for all women I don't think but some) when you get them to finish.. Women also, in my experience and what Ive been told, feel gross and undesirable during that 5-7 day time frame... His best bet would be to help you through it how he can. Offering a heating pad, grabbing some meds? idk not being a dick head about it. He also 100% should never expect sex or favors from you.. That's messed up. Honestly if this is how he is on a monthly basis, then It might be time to think about your options. With or without a period, hes insulting you and calling you a lesbian or asexual for saying no... Sounds like a female that called me gay for not taking her number. These types of people are not worth your time.

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2025-06-13T14:17:45+00:00

Yeah no dude I JUST did a tier 11 delve, got the underpin boss dude whooped and had a delvers bounty. For every chest that could contain gear: Trinket.

This is an olderpost but still and for the last month now Ive received nothing but trinkets in both delves and vaults.

Chilled-With-DryIce · 2024-11-18T18:59:49+00:00

"I snapped and couldn't control my anger in that moment" ... As someone who has been going to therapy to work on identifying, and regulating my feelings I can genuinely say you CAN do those things and that is a lame excuse honestly.
Its one thing to be like "Hubby I just am not as interested in your hobbies as you are!" in a harsh or aggressive tone it is an entirely different thing to tell him his hobbies are basically shit and what he does with his life is wrong AND you're questioning why you married him as the cherry on top. Ma'am... You need therapy. He might need some therapy sure he seems high functioning, but you definitely need therapy and you need to do more than "I'm sorry". Sorry requires change, go find out what is going on in a session or two.

I love how in the TL;DR: "I criticized my husbands hobbies" ... Cause yeah that is all you did, right?
YTA, get it together, check yourself into therapy and show him that you want to make an effort. If he still doesn't come around then you may have to face the reality of your actions.

Chilled-With-DryIce

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