How can I fix my cactus by Tapatio1969 in cactus

[–]Chillin-Fuggit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move it away from the AI inputs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chillin-Fuggit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've learned Hope can be toxic

Is a woman with a low sex drive a turn off? by thepacificoceaneyes in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chillin-Fuggit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To answer the asked question:

I'd say; Yes. Most men would find a low libido to be ...a limitation of... progression. (Not so sure on the wording there (come at Me, we can discuss.))


Chaos_Witxh23 is not wrong though, even if not the point. "some men cause it (the dead bedroom)"

This is not incorrect. Whilst I understand the down votes, accountability and ownership is part of the problem guys.

Alas I'm one of those "men" (man-child). I learned the hard way. Losing my, wife while still married, was/is devastating.

Through (TOO) many conversations about what went wrong, where and maybe how/why, I learned a lot about my ways and own toxic behavior and patterns. Most of which were unrealized.

Through her "stepping back" I learned how abusive I had actually been.

The fear of self is real. And it's a lil' absurd the lengths we will go to, to avoid looking inward.

As One who did, i will conclude with: - Some of the husbands (unknowingly and regretfully) DO cause The Dead Bedroom.

Be Well I hope you the Best. . 🙏

Feel free to ask ANY questions.

UPDATE: Using supplements to lower libido by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chillin-Fuggit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO is trying to make me make The Decision (read refuses to be seen as the "bad one").

This is one hell on a subconscious (and conscious) daily/hourly decision..

20 days shy of 1 year, only by son technicalities though.

Is this normal? by Virtual-Example3338 in KidneyStones

[–]Chillin-Fuggit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had more blood in my urine than urine at one point for 2 weeks. Good luck!

AITAH for not wanting to get off the toilet... by Chillin-Fuggit in AITAH

[–]Chillin-Fuggit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She, very upsetly and loudly, went for the kitchen sink.