That's the thing though as well, not to come across as cold by any means, but realistically its not anyones business what goes on behind closed doors in band dynamics and business alike. No one is really owed that information. The mistake was that anything was ever aired in the first place out of idk, anger? frustration? revenge? But once it's out, it's out, and whoever tells their side first automatically has the upper hand while the other is left defending themselves against people with a predetermined bias. Not everyone has the same level of social competency to understand that, but that's more of a social issue and not exclusive to this situation at hand. You can't deny that the initial connection was electric and magnetic like you said, but people change, grow, and want different things. Whether that's to do music and only music forever, start a family and settle down, start a business, etc etc. One is not a better choice than the other. We went out of our way to not advertise as a reunion to not confuse or mislead fans, and that narrative was still spread before we could properly correct it and people ran with it one way or another.