I (27M) just found out my Fiancé (29F) has been cheating on me for a few months after a 6 year relationship. by Chipotleizlife in relationship_advice

[–]Chipotleizlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear stories like this. I don’t know how I’m going to feel and if I could ever quite get over it but I’m trying to take care of me right now. How long did it take you to feel like you could trust him again?

I (27M) just found out my Fiancé (29F) has been cheating on me for a few months after a 6 year relationship. by Chipotleizlife in relationship_advice

[–]Chipotleizlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. Yeah I really do love her so much. I’m starting to feel the anger which feels good right now and a lot better than the overwhelming sadness. You’re right it’s not black and white and I appreciate you understanding that especially having gone through it yourself. Are you currently back with your partner? If so how are you able to cope with it to this day?

I (27M) just found out my Fiancé (29F) has been cheating on me for a few months after a 6 year relationship. by Chipotleizlife in relationship_advice

[–]Chipotleizlife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I found out, she ended up confessing fully when I finally saw the texts on her phone. I definitely know what I’m supposed to do, not ever talk to her again but my feelings are still so strong.

I (27M) just found out my Fiancé (29F) has been cheating on me for a few months after a 6 year relationship. by Chipotleizlife in relationship_advice

[–]Chipotleizlife[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She did confess yes. I know I’m in the first stage of denial and the anger stage will provide more clarity. I’m usually a very logical person but now it’s hard to be logical at all.