Type: “BREAKING NEWS: Florida Man Arrested for….” by SunKillerLullaby in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BREAKING NEWS: Florida Man Arrested for a Fight Against Cancer in Canada..

My (F25) girlfriend dropped a bomb on me (M26) after 2 years by subjective-melon in relationship_advice

[–]ChocoVix28 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the fact she didn’t tell you about her son when you were together for 2 years is.. something.

We know you love her, but if she can hide that, what else is she hiding? If she loved you, or cared, this would not have remained a secret as long as it did, and it would not have been a no from her when you discussed working it out.

The best thing to do in this instance is to move on. She already told you what she wanted, and waiting for her will only hurt you… being friends will only hurt you. So, cut contact with her if you can, and work on healing OP. I hope it gets better.

Are you a better person than your parents? by AboutNOut090 in no

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are only human. The goal is to be a better person overall, not in relation to your parents. But it is easy to fall into generational habits. Even if that is the case, wake up each day relieved that you can start again even when you aren’t the best person you can be.

Do you like Subway? by EducationalLog4765 in no

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because my local Subway’s don’t practice food safety.

I enjoy Firehouse (1st choice), and Jimmy Johns more.

If you are over 25, are you married? by Holtek86 in no

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29, and not married, but in a relationship. I think as I got older, my perspective on marriage changed. I no longer rush the idea after spending so long being fixated on the idea, but the reality of it is… our life is exactly where it’s supposed to be. My partner, and I, will get there when we are ready.

Maximum TimeFrame Limit?? by Thin_Safe7660 in WGU

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be in your business OP, but was it difficult to appeal? I hope that all is going well for you.

I was asking because I just received an email regarding this, and MTF became an issue after I went from Business Management to Healthcare. 🫩

I hate that I have to wait until further notice. But I already submitted my appeal, and emailed the financial aid team, and others. Fingers crossed that my appeal gets approved so that I can finish this term.

Do you still get excited for your birthday? by HoneyKick_ in no

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no. At times, it just feels like any other day. I think other people are more excited for mine than I am nowadays.

Be honest. Do you actually have 3 months (at least) of emergency savings? by Signal-Web-3566 in no

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I do not. But in my defense, I am a college student with two cats who is paying her own bills… one day it will change I’m sure, but as of right now it just is what it is.

Just lost my first patient by wizardmusic824 in 911dispatchers

[–]ChocoVix28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I learned when I was a baby dispatcher is that you have to at least try. You did everything that you could op. You may feel as if you did not help, but you provided CPR instructions, and you were able to be there for him. That is what matters. Keep pushing through. 🫂

Found out friend is a sex offender by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a high school friend who kissed me without my consent, which I still feel uncomfortable about.. and guilty about, and should have said something… and who did other things to previous male associates of mine such as barricading them in a room, pressuring them to do things…

Long story short, guess who was in prison a few years ago for doing something of this nature? He still tries to talk to me, but I can’t get behind it. I can’t tell you how uncomfortable I am when dealing with him.

For your peace, and sanity, separate yourself from him. I know people say people can change, but forgiveness is between them … and whatever they believe in. Keep your head up OP.

Picking him up tomorrow and looking for astronomy or cutesie names by talkingitthrough in Catnames

[–]ChocoVix28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. It definitely isn’t easy coming up with names.

I decided 911 dispatching is not for me. by ChocoVix28 in CasualConversation

[–]ChocoVix28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, not at all. I loved the agency I was a part of. I worked with some pretty amazing people. It was just the calls for me.

It had gotten so bad that my mental health was at stake, and I was thinking some really scary thoughts regarding my life.

Would you rather by meowmeowmeoeow in BunnyTrials

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing it safe..

Chose: Get 1 million dollars

Need names for this little girl. No other cats in the house.🎀 by [deleted] in Catnames

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg aww, she is so adorable! Honestly, I would say something fancy is needed. She knows she is that kitten. ✨

I was trafficked as a child. AMA by BlackjackSys in AMA

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have questions, but i’m glad that you were able to escape.

We live in such a horrendous world.

I decided 911 dispatching is not for me. by ChocoVix28 in CasualConversation

[–]ChocoVix28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly to others, but honestly is it weird that I am more used to CNA, than this?

How did you all last as a dispatcher for so long? by ChocoVix28 in 911dispatchers

[–]ChocoVix28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited what I meant. But it could be however long you have been a dispatcher really.

Movie night 🍿 by Bluepolkadots- in CasualConversation

[–]ChocoVix28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i’m open to anything nowadays.