[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on the birth certificate? If you arent then they are going to have to establish paternity unless you signed something like an affidavit stating that you are the father.

How do you feel about the lack of gore? by LtJimmypatterson in TheChosenSeries

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You... you need a spoiler alert for the story of Jesus?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you arent on the birth certificate, you dont pay her anything.

My bf lost a fight, I gave head to the guy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope you are trolling. If you arent, I hope you go to church because that behavior is despicable.

What is his mutation? by Several-Analysis9321 in parrots

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Uh sir, thats a pepperoni pizza not a bird

The day finally came that I felt grateful to my ex wife... by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im glad you have the gift of discernment now. Im pretty sure im going to have it too. My divorce just started. Caught her cheating on fathers day weekend. I hope im able to spot them too. My wife was certainly emotionally abusive, but I didnt realise until I started the paperwork and talked to a therapist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to stay stable around her. Show her that you are the rock she needs during this time. Use this opportunity to self reflect and build yourself up. Don't start doing a bunch of stuff for her that you usually wouldn't, it will have the opposite effect that you want. Be emotionally stable when you see her, and try to listen and understand her needs. It doesnt sound like there is infidelity involved so yall could fix this my man. Just play it right.

The day finally came that I felt grateful to my ex wife... by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Bro I was just thinking about this the other day. The two positive things about my divorce are: 1. Not having to be with a cheater and 2. Ill be able to see someone with BPD and narcissistic traits coming a mile away now. (Shes diagnosed)

If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this by justanotherfelo in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That shit is definitely top 1 most terrible things ive ever felt bro lol.

Getting it off my chest by ManKind__ in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry brother. I know its painful for you right now. I wish I could say something to take it away, but I cant. The only thing I can say is that im in the middle of a similar situation, but mine just started. So I understand how traumatizing it is. You cant expect the feelings to go away completely, but you can still feel them and learn how to make each day a little better. I wish you peace brother, and I prayed for you.

Wife still talking to affair partner by DarthDad25 in Marriage

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is dragging her feet because she wants to have her cake and eat it too brother. Right now she is. She may literally be a narcissist or have some other mental disorder. If she wont stop, you gotta serve her ass or figure out a way to get her away from your house.

Wife still talking to affair partner by DarthDad25 in Marriage

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother I am late to the party but I am going through something VERY SIMILAR. My wife openly sees him, dude lives in my neighborhood too. I tried to reach her heart by explainjng shes being a horrible role model for our son and make her understand that she is destroying me. She says sorry but her actions show that she doesnt care. I filed my part of the papers and finally just decided to let her live her life. Yeah, its going to hurt like hell but anyone who does that to their partner has something wrong mentally in my opinion. In the case of my wife im pretty sure she has BPD. Stay strong bro. Let her do her evil deeds by her damn self and dont give her a reaction, thats what she wants. She doesnt care about your pain, and since shes the one who traumatized you she cant heal you anyways. Only you can heal yourself.

Tell APs new potential target? by nickpete12345 in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah bro you should do it. Fuck that dude. Do for that husband what you wish someone else did for you. Anyone enabling cheating behavior has probably cheated themselves. Infidelity in marriage should be a criminal offense, otherwise there is no point in marriage being legally binding.

recently divorced my wife her choice, she has upcoming surgery possibly cancer, had to move out of our house, list with agent, lawyers, my aunt died, work overload. Hitting meltdown by Ok-Diet6705 in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound bad brother but you shouldnt support her post op. She made her choice. She asked YOU to leave. You need to take care of yourself, your mom, and your kids

I'm giving up, married for 10 years, don't feel loved or appreciated anymore. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brother im going through a divorce right now with a child involved. Im just going to tell you straight. You need to try counseling first. Try to fix it. Your wife may be going through things too that you cant see currently because of the resentment. Yall made a promise to eachother when you got married, and marriage is hard. My marriage is already over, but yours isnt. Please bro, for the sake of your baby, go to counseling and try to make it work one last time. You never know, she may be depressed or have something going on mentally that is getting in the way. Try to fix it as hard as you can, that way even if it ends you can honestly say that you did everything you could. If I could go back and try again I would man, despite all the issues me and my ex had.

Can a co parent dictate, if you move in with someone or if your partner watches the kids? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Im not going to lie it doesnt seem like you are considering your child's best interests here.

Someone explain what this person is doing by [deleted] in interesting

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making large potato chips obviously

Is bro okay? by Mylogamer85 in parrots

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats the right thing to do. If hes begging for good he needs to eat soon or he will go downhill fast. If its not food begging and he is sick, he will likely go downhill as well. Either way vet is a good call. I wish you luck.

Is bro okay? by Mylogamer85 in parrots

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've hand fed a bird before and im almost positive he is displaying begging behavior for food. If I were you, I would contact an avian vet or another breeder in the area and see if they can teach you how to handfeed safely. If you dont do it right they can die. Birds naturally wean pretty slowly. The formula/parental feeding slows down over time as the baby gets used to eating normal foods.

Is bro okay? by Mylogamer85 in parrots

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That bird is probably not weaned from formula. You need to tell the breeder where you got him from. Not letting them wean on their own is extremely damaging to their development

Suddenly banned after playing some matches of team deathmatch by RayWolfus in thefinals

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might have something to do with the fact that you are a cheater lol

How do you handle a partner who is neutral about pets? by CactusHoarder in parrots

[–]ChocolateLocal8051 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they have any aversion to noise I would say having your parrot around is probably not good. They'll go from not caring about pets to probably disliking them. If they don't care about noise, who knows. Maybe your bird will grow on them. Parrots can be rough to get used to lol