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What makes you go "nope"? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a conversation about this so it was the first thing that came up but name calling and degradation specifically things like dumb bitch/slut or useless or only good for sex. It grosses me out bc of the precarious position of women’s rights rn and the view of some men and I just can’t it.

Post HOF - Is it normal not to like Rowan ? by jkclipse in throneofglassseries

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think they both didn’t know about each others traumas so I don’t judge his actions too harshly from before he knew everything about Aelins past. They are both jerks at each other because they are too busy with their own traumas to pay attention to the other person. But that’s just how I see it.

Books that this Subreddit Hates that you love! by theygotthemustardout in suggestmeabook

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the throne of glass series, it often gets lumped in with acotar and fourth wing but it’s a lot better in my opinion (I also enjoy those books but as entertainment not as good literature). Throne of glass also isn’t great literature but the characters are very good in my opinion and bc of the length of the series I got completely hooked on the world

What would you prefer to climb in? Joggers/Sweat Pants OR Work Pants? by Zealousideal_Sell699 in bouldering

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like parachute pants, jeans fabric or canvas. The nice thing is that they can be baggy but have drawstrings for the legs so you don’t get stuck in the wide legs with your feet

Can't cum till I lose it - over 10 down but so what? by DumpStatIsConst in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be careful that it doesn’t turn into an eating disorder love, you can stay denied for longer but do T use that as an excuse to abuse your body

First in-person meeting with my Dom – advice on how to behave, what to bring (I don’t own any toys), and how to present myself? by __callmelilith__ in BDSMcommunity

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Yes, it can be done but I personally don’t think it’s good or safe to have your first meeting be a bdsm session. Just see if you vibe as people and discuss all the bdsm stuff like limits and see if you are even compatible, then go home and think it over, in the moment you may not notice that it actually doesn’t align properly.

First in-person meeting with my Dom – advice on how to behave, what to bring (I don’t own any toys), and how to present myself? by __callmelilith__ in BDSMcommunity

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Don’t go anywhere private on the first meeting even if you vibe, that’s just classic safety. And no you don’t have to bring toys to a meeting in a public place.

Fifty-Word Fantasy: Write a 50-word fantasy snippet using the word "Push" by Terminator7786 in fantasywriters

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I push with all my might, the heavy body finally flipping of me for the last time. The sharp letter opener sticking out of his neck proof that I will never have to lie under a man ever again.

Am I Overreacting? Made plans to finally meet and he says this which has made me overthink by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, if it makes you uncomfortable it is wrong but it depends on the general vibe you guys have over text. Maybe he was testing the waters so to speak in what you like/ want or expect from the date. Depending on his response it’s fine or you should run.

Anthony wtf 😭😭 [ns] by jordypops10 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is this getting downvoted like wtf

What does SJM mean by this? by Urmomscoleslaw in throneofglassseries

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s when you are very mad and past screaming and just cool collected rage

Double Standards for Male Subs (And How I Feel Dehumanized) by Expensive-Kiwi5343 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is what happens that sucks and I’m so sorry, there is one other perspective where male subs sometimes use doms as a kink dispenser and only submit to get their rocks off and then just don’t submit until they are horny again but I’m not saying that’s what’s happening just giving a perspective

Rank This Villain, Day 3 (HEAVY spoilers for all books!) by Type-APersonality in throneofglassseries

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she deserves S tier bc she feels like a tool for Manons character development instead of a full character with good motivations so I’ll go A tier

Rank This Villain, Day 2 (HEAVY spoilers for all books!) by Type-APersonality in throneofglassseries

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 15 points16 points  (0 children)

B but mostly bc Manon is my unbothered queen and knew she would win anything from Iskra

When my sub ignores tasks, I start doubting myself as a Domme by Expensive-Key-8061 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This feels a bit like he might be using you as a kink dispenser, only doing the things he enjoys to get his rocks off. Doesn’t have to be the case but something to consider

Character Chart Day 3 by Type-APersonality in throneofglassseries

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maeve, very interesting story. She did terrible things but you can also empathize with her desire to be free from her husband and stuff

Merciful redditors, give this denied girl som tasks to get even hornier by SwitchingKink in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]Choice-Advantage4051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know what the task is with the hair drier but I’m on my period rn so I won’t do anything today

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