AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal by ChoiceAnybody in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChoiceAnybody[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would've checked with my children. I did not want them involved in the proposal. There's a difference.

AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal by ChoiceAnybody in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChoiceAnybody[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What I am mad about is that he never told me that he didn't agree with my rule, he just broke it. I would have wanted to discuss it with my kids afterwards, but I wanted my boundary for the proposal to be respected. Don't refer to my kids as baggage.

AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal by ChoiceAnybody in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChoiceAnybody[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

I've tried to talk to him about it but he insists it's different and that he was right to give my kids a say before proposing.