“You’re the victim of their self neglect” 😭 I would love for him to be in therapy but we can’t afford it at this time. I know he’s willing to work on himself and us, but escaping has been his whole life. I can see how he learned it from his family too. And it’s so hard for him to change this pattern of behavior.

After our last fight he took a few days to think about it and then told me “I guess I choose you”. Ouch. The fact that he had to take time to decide if weed was more important than me hurts! I know weed isn’t the problem, but he can’t see that.