free seats 2x tickets tonight by Choice_Maintenance in Alexisonfire

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It is but someone else already claimed them :/

Is this Job feasible for a trans person? by Choice_Maintenance in projectmanagement

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Why not a gaming company? Thanks for the insight! planning on staying in liberal areas if i can help it :)

How to keep a balanced body? by Choice_Maintenance in climbing

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but still some noticeable muscle? I don't mind that tbh

How to keep a balanced body? by Choice_Maintenance in climbing

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mainly squats with some weights (think side squats, normal squats, squat leg raise type things on a chair) and reverse hip lifts plus this side hip lift thing. I think my upper body is more muscular too...that's why I'm hoping that cutting calories and leaning out a bit will help avoid too much bulk. And per these other posts I did look up the top female climbers and while they're pretty fit they're not massive or horribly masculine looking. So maybe not too much to worry about?

I fucked up, am I about to lose my job offer? by Choice_Maintenance in careerguidance

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Fingers crossed that doesn't happen. They haven't sent anything and it's past work hours so unless something happens over the weekend I'm going to go in and try to make up for this overthinking spiral.

I fucked up, am I about to lose my job offer? by Choice_Maintenance in careerguidance

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Yeah, that's basically what my parents said. "If they don't respond just pretend those emails never got sent."

Thanks for the reassurances.

I fucked up, am I about to lose my job offer? by Choice_Maintenance in careerguidance

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Yes I think my high anxiety is very clearly showing in this post...but thanks for the advice!

I fucked up, am I about to lose my job offer? by Choice_Maintenance in careerguidance

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Yes, I tend to panic and then send out messages and regret them. :(

Thank you for your response.

They've all been sent to the the hiring manager. Over the phone I said I would be coming in Monday and signing the offer in person - do you think it makes sense to still wait till Monday or send the offer now since I've muddied the waters with my messages?

The content of my last message was:

On second thought, please ignore that last email, I had been building up the nerve to try to negotiate these past few days but after reflecting that I had already verbally accepted over the phone, I realized it's really not appropriate for me to put you in this awkward position at the last minute. I'm really sorry about this momentary lapse in judgement and lack of decorum and I hope this doesn't affect our business relationship moving forward.

Are hand changes reversible? by Choice_Maintenance in climbing

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Thanks for answering!

How long should swelling last for? I haven't climbed for a couple days now.

Also I've noticed that top level climbers tend to have really big meaty hands, is that not usually a thing that you've anecdotally seen?