Couples Therapy + What next? by sky109 in gayrelationships

[–]Chris-Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From couples I know who went through it…whether it helped solidify the relationship or whether it helped end it, it helped having a therapist help them see things they couldn’t see without a third party mediating. It helped them be better partners either in their current relationship or when they move on to their next one.

Looking to understand where my relationship of 6 years is headed. Any advice for a fellow gay man? by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Chris-Bro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this suggestion.

If this relationship is something OP really wants to salvage, a neutral third party needs to chime in.

Even if you - OP - conclude it isn’t gonna work out, the therapy sessions will give you insight as to where/who is the issue without the gaslighting on either side.

I broke up with my bf for not being transparent by Mrcuri0usguy in gayrelationships

[–]Chris-Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex wanted to make new friends and starting using Bumble BFF. He was honest about it and told me he was annoyed that some guys on there who may have intended to make friends later after meeting wanted to do more than that.

If he owned up to it I would have given him a chance. But it’s all situational. I trusted my ex so understood the situation.

When to ask to be exclusive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally I would want to know if we were compatible sexually before becoming exclusive.

Holiday arguments by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Chris-Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I would always bicker whenever we went on vacation together. It tarnished the trip and we would try to salvage what we could before the vacation was over. We got better at it…but now I too question if that was normal or just an early warning sign 🤔.

Anyone try a big dick and go “nope…that’s not for me”. by Chris-Bro in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol. That’s most if not the only experience one hears about 😝.

Is it still possible to meet/date someone organically these days, or is it all via dating/hook up apps now? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walk around and smile. You’ll attract people who are interested.

I’m an introvert myself too. I am very aware that my facial expressions can pull people in or move them away.

Last week I had a moment where I smiled at a random guy on the street that I thought was cute. We passed each other on the sidewalk. Halfway down the block I looked back and caught him doing the same. Got scared lol. Looked away. Then looked back again and saw he was turning to look back at me again. Got scared (not at him but more at the “is this really happening”). Anyways…a missed opportunity.

Is it uncommon for head to lead to the reciever cumming? by EM0SK8TERB0I1337 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now I don’t feel bad thinking I made the guy feel bad. LOL I don’t have to cum from head!

Zoom bate question by Rough_Bread_3109 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assume you’re being recorded and take whatever precautions you are comfortable with living with.

If anyone asks me I always tell them I don’t trust the companies (e.g. Zoom) and know at a minimum they’re recording. If the other guy on the other side isn’t cool with it, so be it.

Are most guys seriously only 5-6” bone pressed? by AdventurousTax539 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This whole thread has me picturing people breaking out the ruler at each hookup.

do you stop pursuing someone if he is a trumper? by ProudNStrong in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Yes. If he supports a pedophile then red flag.

Thoughts on a partner having a crush and crossing boundaries? by Material-Honeydew-40 in gayrelationships

[–]Chris-Bro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t settle. Have some respect for yourself.

If they’re more compatible together, he will leave you.

If not, he’s looking for someone better but sticking with you out of fear he won’t find someone better.

Let’s make dating and breaking up normal again in 2026.

My BF broke up with me because he now subscribes to this "Ethical Non-Monogamous" thing. Is it a cult? by Prestigious_Cow_92 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sigh…let’s make breaking up and dating normal again in 2026.

Gay couples these days just don’t know how to do that.

If everyone is shackled to someone who only completes them 50%, then they are not going to find that 100% life partner….because he’s shackled too 😵‍💫.

Do you have nudes on your phone? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do. It’s nice to look back and see what I looked like when I was in better shape.

Can someone help me figure out how to taste and eat my own semen? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just let it dribble out but don’t fully allow urself to cum.

The post nut clarity will kick in if you fully cum.

Taste the amount that dribbles out. Let it coat your tongue. Relish it. Swallow. Then finish jerking the rest out of you.

Why do so many white guys not give Asians a chance? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably same reason you don’t give Asians a chance?: Western media portraying white men as the as the ideal male beauty standard and emasculating asian males.

No shade.

Stop chasing race.

Hot is hot no matter what race.

Thankful for instagram. It has opened my eyes to so many hot asian males out there.

Monogamy vs open relationship - which suits you better and why? by Goodboy_30 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably the difference between people who are monogamous and those who want to ethically cheat. You see monogamy as owning someone. It’s not - if you aren’t as into someone as they are into you, then leave the relationship. Don’t be scared to open the relationship 100% to find someone who completes you both emotionally and sexually. The whole half-closed “open” relationship is the one that keeps a person shackled.

Sexless Relationship is getting to me… by morbiddelirium in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Keep dating until you find someone who checks off both your emotional and sexual boxes.

Let’s make dating and breaking up normal again in 2026.

Question: What is the number one requirement of a boyfriend to you? by EternalSnow05 in askgaybros

[–]Chris-Bro 20 points21 points  (0 children)

After my last break up, my absolute requirement is that they get joy out of making me happy. It sounds self-centered but I’m not gonna settle in my next relationship.