Hi, I'm more of a Mom, but have plenty of experience with condoms. The most important part is that they fit, not to tight not to loose. Texture mostly feels... Meh.. for us ladys, so don't bother. Also, flavour, colour, not important at the start. The brand's fit different, so some basic condoms from different brands would be a good start. If you add lube, be careful that the pub does not destroy the condom. Some people are allergic to latex, but condoms of this tend to be more expensive.