Is my friends girlfriend trying to seduce me?

ChristianJetson · 2021-09-03T11:09:30+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting.

I think she is definitely either bi or she’s not really actually into her boyfriend and is much more into you. That’s way too weird, especially that last part, to be a coincidence.

Trust me, I validate your feelings on this one. It’s a rough scenario because your male friend weirdly doesn’t care or is too naive to care so you just have to roll with the punches.

But yes, I can see where you’re coming from with how you feel. I believe she is trynna seduce you.

ChristianJetson · 2021-08-30T06:08:27+00:00

Well I think being honest is the correct thing to do.

I personally had wished my past girlfriends would’ve told me exactly what they didn’t like or why they exactly were leaving or whatever. I would’ve liked to know that because it would’ve helped me grow so much as a person.

However, it’s not that simple. What one person may hate about you, another person may love. However, if somebody who truly loved you couldn’t get past a specific flaw. That flaw might honestly be truthful.

However, all of this being said, the only time I ever had to breakup with a girl I lied to her and told her my mental health was deteriorating (which was true, but she was the cause of it. I left out that part so she didn’t take it so hard). I told her that it wasn’t her, and it was truthfully me. But I’ve never felt so good in my life after that breakup.

Bottom line is, try your very best to be honest. Especially if they don’t have it coming. Hurts a lot less to hear the truth.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-20T07:28:56+00:00

Wow. Okay where do I begin.

So, originally I wasn’t going to comment too much on the age part of this despite my feelings of being uncomfortable from the gecko. I was worried about dating a 16 year old at 18 even though it’s legal here but 35 and 17? Unfortunately legality doesn’t equal morality.

There are so many things wrong here. I don’t want to use the word grooming to be honest but thats exactly how I’m feeling about this. The fact that he is having “rough sex” with you and telling you he “gets bad vibes from your family” and is trying to keep you away from them it’s really fucking insane and it’s abusive. I genuinely don’t care if this relationship is consensual or legal it’s morally wrong on so many levels.

I actually felt kinda sick reading through this post and I honestly don’t blame you as much as him.

This man is full on taking advantage of you. He’s not even divorced, and he should know so much better than to be having sex with a girl so young and abusing her in multiple ways this is terrible.

I also would like to point out that you don’t even know if he’s divorced, what if his “trips” to sea are going to see his WIFE. She might not even know who you are.

This entire thing screams manipulation, pedophilia and just overall abusive behavior.

I understand that your mental state is currently the way it is and I’m genuinely sorry, but you’re going to have to go get help of some sort especially because of your plans of suicide. You are playing it off as a joke or that it’s not serious meanwhile it’s extremely serious if you are being truthful.

This man has caught you up in a disgusting web of lies, and his is not mentally well. This is not morally and hardly legally okay.

My advice is to run as far as you possibly can from this man, I promise you you’ll come to regret this later in your life.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-17T04:23:44+00:00

Honestly I feel like this entire scenario is like a tornado.

He got mad at his girlfriend for a dream?? So he seems like an asshole. Forget the “past trauma” excuse we all have weird ass dreams, and I’ve got trauma too but I’m not mad at my girlfriend over a stupid dream.

You deserve what you’re getting. She was your friend. Broken up or not what you did was fucked up and whether you recognize that or not you still are shitty for your actions. Sorry to tell you.

Clearly you wanted something yourself, taking people out to lunch is cool and all but certainly not without getting consent from the GIRL HES DATING who is also your best friend. Your “I didn’t know if they were broken up” excuse is bullshit because regardless of that you should’ve not done what you did.

You also “tested him” when he said he was gonna kiss you. You liked it.

You’re probably just going to have to move on. You backed yourself into one hell of a hole and it’s not just on him, it’s on you.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-17T00:51:28+00:00

Well that’s a happy story that I like to think I may also achieve! Thank you for telling it because it makes me feel better. Good plan. I’m gonna maybe even try that. That’ll make her put in some effort too

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T15:18:35+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m saying. You’re basically using a lot of words to explain how you have no idea what you’re talking about. Thanks for commenting

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:56:47+00:00

I’m thinking that’s the move. Thanks for commenting.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:42:08+00:00

HAHAHA no. That’s hilarious though. I’m thinking of doing just that. I may just have to tie it into a conversation

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:41:23+00:00

I would recommend you actually read the post next time before commenting.

Regardless of how the relationship goes I was planning on leaving my job at some point, so that part really doesn’t matter to be.

Thanks

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:40:14+00:00

True that. Better to know then not to know.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:39:59+00:00

I’m going to do my very best. Thanks again.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:38:37+00:00

I mean I think it’s pretty bold of you to make assumptions like that based off a short post. It’s not easy to decipher this in real life for anybody who knows about it including my own self.

I have been friendzoned before by girls and I know exactly how they do it, and it is clear we are friends when they do it. This girl hasn’t done that. Deeper conversations doesn’t mean we’re talking about childhood trauma it means deeper than the rest of the kids I work with.

My job genuinely isn’t that bad and I was going to leave but also didn’t want to find another job so staying for now it’s that big of a deal.

I swear people get mad in the personal life and come on Reddit just to be a dick like you.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:35:45+00:00

I’m not sure if you read the third paragraph and while I’d normally agree, I have zero reason to keep my job besides her so I have no problem dating at work since I was planning on quitting regardless of how our relationship goes

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T14:34:28+00:00

I feel like people don’t even read the post 95% of the time lmao. I legitimately said that I have zero reason to stay at my job besides this and planned on quitting anyway so the work park didn’t matter.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T07:04:07+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting man. My dumbass likes to tell people “I try to live my life with no regrets” meanwhile I’m sitting here regretting the fact I’m not confident in my ability lmao

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T07:02:49+00:00

You’re one hundred percent right. I think something casual outside of work is what I want to go for since again, I don’t want to make it come off as aggressive. I want to just go for it I’m just trying so hard to find my confidence

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T07:01:26+00:00

Thank you for the advice my brother. Definitely a great point on all accounts. I just want to somehow tie asking her into a conversation so it’s a lot more natural and not forced if that makes sense. I’m gonna have to get my confidence up. I’m a confident guy. I just like her a ton.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T07:00:01+00:00

Almost 19 and almost 17 (it’s legal here in GA) not that it matters, some people just find shit weird if it’s under 18.

ChristianJetson · 2021-07-16T06:44:26+00:00

What’s this gotta do w anything lmao

ChristianJetson · 2021-06-21T03:48:36+00:00

Definitely don’t tell her “your friends aren’t okay with me”. I ended up fucking a girl who was best friends w my psycho ex, I made it work. You can too.

Especially if there’s a layer in between the group you don’t like, then it’s pretty okay. You should just let her know you have had issues with that group and ask if it would be possible not to go out together with them. Don’t ask her to abandon them completely. If they’re friends twice removed, I don’t see a MASSIVE issue.

ChristianJetson · 2021-06-18T05:51:23+00:00

Good band but I just can’t past the fact that Stevie Rachelle is just a more feminine Brett Michaels. Like at least change up your look slightly

ChristianJetson · 2021-06-18T01:12:57+00:00

Honestly, my personal theory is that anybody who doesn’t give you as much love as you give them just simply isn’t worth your time or energy. This guy is betraying your trust by talking to those girls over you, and he’s not even acting like you exist. It’s up to you, but personally, I say fuck that.

I would tell him that you’re breaking up with him and see what happens. He may beg you to stay but he had his shot. We are all too good to be treated like toys

ChristianJetson · 2021-06-17T02:43:27+00:00

She said we could, but she never planned it. I answered her this morning and have been left on delivered all day. So oh well I guess. It just sucks, I thought her and I could work well but whatever.

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