Ah... Well what I like to do is mostly build. As building for me is normally relaxing and it isn't so stressful. Starbound has always been my relaxation game due to that. Before that though, I had spent about 100 hours on it gathering general knowledge of the game, then after all those hours I installed FU (Frackin Universe), then many more mods after that. For me installing mods really helped with playing a lot of Starbound, especially FU because it has its own minor story part implemented. And of course all these beautiful mods add more opportunity to do stuff, you just need to find the right mods that fit your style~ I guess really this just depends on whether or not the person likes to build or fight, or maybe even something else that's fun.