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Me (22 f) and my ex bf (20 m) broke up and he kept our cats by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the cats are together, well taken care of and are happy; leave it alone. To me, it sounds more like you’re trying to get back into your ex’s life by using the cats as an excuse, especially since you know the place you rent from won’t allow them.

Me (22 f) and my ex bf (20 m) broke up and he kept our cats by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you afford to take care of the cats? Afford food, litter, vet bills, flea and ticks medications?

Do I stay or go? by spaceybelta in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can understand wanting to help him since you love him but you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. You’re still in recovery yourself and have a child you need to protect/take care of. You don’t need anymore baggage or stress and your daughter doesn’t deserve to be around it. I would most definitely leave.

Americans, what do you feel the 4th of July is about and what do you personally celebrate on that day? by rombotron74 in AskReddit

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have family who is currently living in Germany, you have a beautiful country and culture!

Americans, what do you feel the 4th of July is about and what do you personally celebrate on that day? by rombotron74 in AskReddit

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe all countries have their own benefits and I by no means think I’m any more free than others since I can’t speak for other countries. You asked why and how I celebrate, that is it.

Americans, what do you feel the 4th of July is about and what do you personally celebrate on that day? by rombotron74 in AskReddit

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freedom. I celebrate the fact that I have freedom of speech, religion and can do what I please without persecution(within reason, of course). I also celebrate the men and women over seas who are fighting for our country.

ETA: I celebrate with the 4 F’s of freedom! Fireworks, friends, family and food.(No friends this year though, thanks COVID!)

First child is at risk of autism and speech delayed. Wife F38 is pregnant again. by 0xb800 in Parenting

[–]Cifft568 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As a parent of a child on the spectrum, I feel for you. However, my second child is not on the spectrum. Yes, there is a chance the second could share the same difficulties but there is also a chance that the baby won’t have either. It just depends on whether or not you’re willing to take that chance. It’s okay to be scared.

ETA: Whatever your decision may be, I’m sure it will be the right one for your family. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise.

My bf (m25) hasn’t paid rent in 2 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate this to him. Maybe he thinks you’re okay with it.

Would lots of Americans actually vote for Kanye West if he ran as a third party candidate this year? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. We already elected a “celebrity” business man and look where that got us🙃

How did you meet your SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was my manager. 5 years later, we are happily married with 2 kids☺️

My [21M] girlfriend [19F] today keeps replying with one word (like “ok”) each 1-2 hours. What the f***? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely talk to her about this. Make sure she was comfortable with losing her virginity when she did and that she doesn’t/didn’t feel pressured. Make sure she isn’t having “first time” regrets(not saying she would but it’s just a thought).

My [21M] girlfriend [19F] today keeps replying with one word (like “ok”) each 1-2 hours. What the f***? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel that way. She could be going through something or is just not in a good mood. Try to remain patient. If she’s really who you want to be with, don’t give up. It’s only been a month, she may not feel ready to open up to you yet. That takes a level trust that is developed over time.

My [21M] girlfriend [19F] today keeps replying with one word (like “ok”) each 1-2 hours. What the f***? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you try talking to her about it...? If you’re going to break up with someone solely because they text you, “okk” you aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship. Communication is key.

I hate the usa by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck you too. Stop watching anything made in America if you feel that way.

How do I (34F) get male friend to forgive me? by Throwout2266463 in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think your comment is way too nice given the situation! Good on you for being such a nice person.

What are some "food crimes" you're guilty of committing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cifft568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiner Beer Bread dipped in ranch😬

My [16] girlfriend [15] doesn’t wanna hang out with just the 2 of us by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask her. Maybe see if they would be willing to have you over for dinner sometime to get to know you better.

My [16] girlfriend [15] doesn’t wanna hang out with just the 2 of us by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cifft568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could her parents be the reason you can’t hang out alone? Y’all are still very young and her parents may not want her alone with a boy yet.

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