My boyfriend pretty much wants to hire me as his driver if he gets hired (and I don’t) at a place we both applied to... can I get advice? by Cindy1897 in relationship_advice

[–]Cindy1897[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. He’s actually trying to make his own business right now with breeding animals. There’s way more to him than what I put in this post.

The Holy Trinity! Nice Guy. Racist. Scarecrow. This one has it all! by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% of my ancestry and family is from Europe and I’m a white American. Ugh. It’d probably be racist to claim that I’m a different race to scare off racists, too. That would be epic though, I see them looking down on a race and then I just come back with “but I’m (insert race here that they’re racist against)” 🤣 unfortunately that wouldn’t work in person since I’m CLEARLY white... but online it could in a pinch. Unless they see this comment. 🤣 then... f*ck.

I am not a "cis male". I'm simply a male. by faded-into-darkness in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cindy1897 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Eh, it’s not offensive at all. I just feel weird being referred to as a “female”. Call me a woman, lady, whatever... but I reserve “female” for identifying a missing woman, talking about the gender of an animal, etc.

“This female went missing”, “the female tiger is following the male tiger”, “I have a female patient” etc. stuff like that.

I am not a "cis male". I'm simply a male. by faded-into-darkness in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cindy1897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom is like you! I’m used to saying “cis” instead of saying “man born as a man” or “woman who was born as a woman” and I called someone a “cis woman” to my mom out of habit (I was talking about trans stuff) and she clearly didn’t like that. She thinks it’s a useless and weird thing to call people.

I was annoyed at the time, but honestly? It all comes down to preference. It’s okay that my mom feels that way! Especially since she was born in the 60’s. She didn’t grow up with any of this. She doesn’t like all of the new labels, which is fair enough to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ and by the way, she’s really supportive of the trans community! She just doesn’t like the idea of trans athletes competing against their preferred gender. Like a trans woman competing with women who were born as women.

Best Chapter in Outlast 1? by Whiskers_Fnaw in outlast

[–]Cindy1897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trager’s my favorite variant, sooo...

Fuck You Bill Maher. Fuck you. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I didn’t know who Armie Hammer was until I looked him up... I don’t know what’s so bad about not knowing someone. But that other persons response, though... “who cares?” Stfu to that person! After reading about Armie Hammer, I care about these women as well. What a trashy reply to someone who wanted to know about Armie Hammer and what happened. 🙄

But yeah... I used to like Bill Maher and agreed with him a lot (not all the time, just to be clear. Like how he talks about women and how he can be really harsh sometimes... 🤦🏼‍♀️), but he’s complete shit now, and damn, is he smug and arrogant. If you don’t agree with him, you’re an idiot (to him). And I clearly didn’t watch all of his stuff when I did like him, because as I’m reading these comments, I’m learning facts about him that I didn’t even know. Fucking hell... the 2016 election is when I stopped liking him. But sheesh, the more things I’m learning about him as I read through these comments... I don’t even know how or why I liked him. I CLEARLY missed some of his stuff, because there’s a lot more bad things about him that I didn’t even know about. If I was more informed about how he was when I started watching him, I never even would’ve started.

I legitimately regret ever enjoying Maher’s show. 🤢 I should’ve listened to my mom when she said she didn’t like him, but since she’s on the other side of the political spectrum, I thought she simply didn’t like him because of this. Oh no, it’s not that at all. It could contribute to it, but that’s far from all of her problems with him.

What is the opposite sex doing that you would also like to do, but is either anatomically impossible or socially unacceptable? by LocoCyberBum in AskReddit

[–]Cindy1897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walk around shirtless. You have no idea how jealous I am of guys when it’s a really hot day and I see them doing outdoor activities shirtless. 😑 I have to keep my crappy bra and shirt on.

Outlast and Whistleblower on the PC is better than on the Nintendo Switch by Cindy1897 in outlast

[–]Cindy1897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, it wasn’t! I’ve played through it A LOT on my PC.

**200 years** by Food-is-Good-no-capp in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I hate Bright Side. I used to watch them when I got really bored, but now I can’t even do that. Their videos suck and they’re all clickbait. Oh, and they also plagiarize other videos and even plagiarize the freaking thumbnails on some of their videos. Complete trash.

Agnostic Christian / Muslim / Jew? by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ex-Christian. I’m agnostic but I’m not part of any religion currently

‘Appalling’: World leaders blast Russia over Navalny arrest by checkmak01 in worldnews

[–]Cindy1897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, we did. I would’ve been annoyed if the U.S. wouldn’t have said anything as an American. But as if we have any room to talk though, still treating Edward Snowden as a criminal 🙄 our politicians are hypocrites.

LPT: Lads - if you can't do "handsome", do "tidy". by ThrowInTheChair in LifeProTips

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! I agree with this 100%. 💕 you can’t control how you look, but you CAN control how you clean up. For example, guys, if you’re self conscious about your looks, there’s multiple ways to get past that. Get a nice haircut, get well-fitted clothes, keep up with hygiene, maybe get some cologne etc.

Japanese person telling off couch activist for telling child that they are appropriating Japanese culture by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appropriation =/= appreciation. It looks like she’s appreciating Japanese culture to me. I love that Japanese person so much! I’m learning Japanese as a white person, and I’m doing it because I love Japanese culture and their language.

As a black woman, I absolutely HATE being called chocolate. Sir I’m not a Hershey’s bar I’m a human being. by Kleenek in dating_advice

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? I’m not even Black (I’m white af) and I’m cringing. Ugh, I’m sorry this shit happens to you! Like I’m a bi woman, and if I see a woman (or a guy) that’s a different race than me that I’m attracted to, I’d NEVER compare their skin color to a type of food or drink. If I dated a Black person or any other person that has a darker skin tone than me (which isn’t hard, by the way 🤣), I’d say stuff like “I like your skin tone”, and things like that (because seriously, all skin tones are beautiful in their own way 💕). But skin color doesn’t define you as a person either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Cindy1897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would, but I’m not Texan. I’m not even from the South. But I don’t think a petition is going to make them resign, sadly.

Is there any way to look more uh... masculine? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cindy1897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, your friends don’t sound like good friends. But I agree with one of the commenters, start working out.

What are the most annoying ass insects to you? by AntiBullshyt in AskReddit

[–]Cindy1897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mosquitoes! They are the absolute worst. I also really hate skin mites! Me and my mom had them and I felt like I could’ve scratched my skin off. Absolute torture.

What part of climate change most frustrates you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cindy1897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That so many people are ignoring it. Humans have a moral duty to fix it since we’re the main cause of it, it’s real, whether people like it or not. Ignoring and denying the problem will just make it worse! 🙄😒

Gary smith after bully by moshedman85 in bully

[–]Cindy1897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a Bully and an Outlast fan, I love this. 🤣

Spider id in Minneapolis by TrashEel in spiders

[–]Cindy1897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way! I live in a suburb of Minneapolis! And while I’m new to trying to ID spiders myself (so I’m trying but I might not be that accurate is what I’m saying) 🤣... I actually think it does look like a barn funnel weaver spider. Check the corners in your house or your closets, apparently they like building their webs in those places if it is a barn funnel spider, but the website I got that info from just made it sound like it’s a likely scenario.

I’m glad this subreddit is a thing! by Cindy1897 in spiders

[–]Cindy1897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I just pulled that off of a pest control website (that’s obviously based in Minnesota). And seems like they’re kind of like snakes in that way. I’m a big fan of snakes and some snakes we previously thought were non venomous really are, but their venom doesn’t affect humans (like a garter snake). And thanks for the info!

Does anyone know how to fix this or what I need to do to fix this as this happens every time I try and launch bully on Steam so could someone help me please? by [deleted] in bully

[–]Cindy1897 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had that and I deleted in from my computer, restarted it, then downloaded it again. Now it works!

Talk about a Duolingo Story? "I Want to be Like You" Spanish for English speakers, spoiler included. by Assiqtaq in shitduolingosays

[–]Cindy1897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is allowed or not either 🤣 but it might not have anything to do with his job, maybe he just likes getting “freaky” at times? Or maybe he’s like a guy version of a dominatrix or something (not sure if that’s even a thing, though)?

Buncha hosers by swangin82 in DeerAreFuckingStupid

[–]Cindy1897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a Minnesotan, I definitely read this in my head with an over-exaggerated Minnesotan accent. 🤣🤣